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  • Beloved stone dinosaur, Bridget the Dino, has its head smashed off in Manayunk. The community wants answers for its garden guardian.

    Beloved stone dinosaur, Bridget the Dino, has its head smashed off in Manayunk. The community wants answers for its garden guardian.

    Annie Schuster couldn’t believe what she saw Sunday night when scrolling Instagram. She ran to the kitchen to show her husband the grisly crime that had occurred in their Manayunk neighborhood hours earlier.

    Bridget the Dino, a 3-foot-tall costume-sporting stone Tyrannosaurus rex, was ruthlessly beheaded, in the garden she calls home. Bridget’s head, still wearing a scarf, was lying at the foot of her stone body in the photo posted by the Manayunk Bridge Garden, the dinosaur’s caretakers.

    Schuster and her husband, who live in Manayunk and take their children to see Bridget regularly, were in shock. “I thought it was like an unspoken rule, you leave Bridget alone,” she said.

    Roxborough resident Juliane Holz felt a wave of anger and sadness as she learned of the vandalism, “She’s actually decapitated,” she said to herself upon reading a text from a neighbor.

    Park volunteers notified the community that someone knocked the head off the statue in a heartfelt Instagram post Sunday evening. While the park didn’t announce any suspects or persons of interest, they’re calling on the community for help. “If you saw anything, or know what happened, please reach out,” the statement said. Volunteers filed a report of vandalism with Philadelphia police, but neighbors aren’t expecting police to catch the person who did it, Holz said.

    Holz, who serves as a volunteer for the Roxborough Manayunk Conservancy, which oversees the garden at Dupont and High Streets, believes the vandalism occurred between a volunteer event that the garden hosted Saturday evening and early Sunday, when neighbors walk their dogs in the morning.

    Schuster and other parents teach their children the golden rules of keeping one’s hands to oneself, so it’s perplexing to think an adult would do something like this, she said.

    “I think it definitely had to be an adult, which is unfortunate because it’s not very adultlike behavior. It had to involve a lot of strength because I don’t even know how you carry one, they’re so heavy. Let alone knock it over and put it back up.“

    Bridget the Dino, a beloved stone garden statue at the Manayunk Bridge Garden, pictured in an Easter Bunny costume for Easter. The community often dresses up Bridget during different holidays and themed events. In November 2026, her head was smashed off her body.

    Holz echoed other neighbors’ sentiments that it must have been an intentional act committed by an adult, seeing as the 300-pound Bridget would be difficult to move even for the strongest Philadelphians, Holz said.

    This is a blow to a neighborhood, Schuster said, which has steadily been redefining its community spaces to be more green, inviting, and a safe place for the many young families of Manayunk. Bridget the Dino is a symbol for the patchwork of neighbors who are volunteering their time and contributing to public spaces. On holidays, locals adorn her in themed costumes, like a witch for Halloween or rainbow-colored skirts for Pride.

    “It seems like something silly to be upset about, but someone put a lot of effort and money — these statues and improvements are not cheap — into making that bridge garden a really nice place,” Schuster said. “I hate the fact that somebody did that.”

    Holz and Schuster both agree that if a perpetrator is caught, they will receive a community service punishment of a full year of mandatory weeding. “The most grueling job in the garden,” Holz said.

    Bridget the Dino, a beloved stone garden statue at the Manayunk Bridge Garden, pictured in a construction worker’s uniform. The community often dresses up Bridget during different holidays and themed events. In November 2026, her head was smashed off her body.

    Does Manayunk replace or repair Bridget the Dino?

    Holz said that the Manayunk Bridge Park will neither replace nor repair Bridget, as the dinosaur is “irreplaceable” and it would be disrespectful to place another stone dinosaur in her stead and refer to is as “Bridget.” Park volunteers are wary of repairing Bridget because of the slanted break across her neck. Any repair could easily succumb to the weight of a child riding her back or a dog leaning on top of her, and cause injury, Holz said.

    Bridget originates from the local home and garden center store, Holod’s on Ridge Pike in Lafayette Hill, which hosts an annual stone T. rex costume contest. Last year’s winner was “Rexy the Paleontologist.”

    In the wake of Bridget’s destruction, Holod’s will be donating a brand new stone dinosaur statue, Holz said. Several neighbors already own stone dinos from Holod’s, which has become a staple on stoops throughout Roxborough and Manayunk. Holz’s home dinosaur is named Hans.

    Many offered to donate their own, but Holz is grateful for Holod’s contribution.

    Bridget the Dino, a beloved stone garden statue at the Manayunk Bridge Garden, pictured in a rainbow skirt and accessories for Pride Month. The community often dresses up Bridget during different holidays and themed events. In November 2026, her head was smashed off her body.

    This isn’t the first time animal statue vandalism has hit the Bridge Garden. Bridget had a friend named “Gary the Goat,” a similar-sized plush goat toy who dressed up alongside Bridget, who was stolen from the park in 2023. “He was stripped of his clothes, and poof, he was gone from the Manayunk Bridge Gardens. Bridget misses her friend,” one Roxborough Rants & Raves Facebook group member wrote at the time.

    As the Manayunk Railroad bridge was converted into a pedestrian and cyclist bridge in 2015, a movement began to revitalize the green spaces along the trail, birthing the Manayunk Bridge Park around 2020. Bridget the Dino, named after the bridge she lives at, soon arrived and graced the park as its loyal guardian and mascot for the wider community.

    It also helps that Bridget is eye-level with most young children for approving pats on the head, Schuster said.

    Bridget will soon be repurposed elsewhere in the garden to safely rest and continue her tenure as the garden’s guardian, Holz said. Once the new dinosaur statue arrives, the community will have to come together to imagine a new name and backstory, “Could it be Bridget’s child or maybe an entirely new dinosaur altogether?” she said.

  • What’s open and closed on Thanksgiving Day in the Philly area: Grocery stores, liquor stores, trash pickup, and more

    What’s open and closed on Thanksgiving Day in the Philly area: Grocery stores, liquor stores, trash pickup, and more

    Thanksgiving is almost here, and whether you’re putting the turkey in early, running out for last-minute butter, or realizing you forgot to buy wine (again), knowing what’s open — and what’s not — can save you a scramble.

    From grocery stores and pharmacies to transit, trash pickup, and big-box retailers, here’s what’s open and closed in the Philadelphia region on Thanksgiving.

    Grocery stores

    Acme Markets

    ✅ Acme Markets locations will be open from 7 a.m. to 4 p.m. Check your local store’s hours at local.acmemarkets.com.

    Whole Foods

    ✅ Most Whole Foods locations will be open on Thanksgiving from 7 a.m. to 1 p.m. Check your local store’s hours at wholefoodsmarket.com/stores.

    Giant Food Stores

    ✅ Giant locations will be open between 6 a.m. to 2 p.m. Check your local store’s hours at giantfoodstores.com/store-locator.

    South Philly Food Co-op

    ✅ South Philly Food Co-op will be open from 8 a.m. to 3 p.m.

    Sprouts Farmers Market

    ✅ Sprouts will be open from 7 a.m. to 2 p.m.

    Trader Joe’s

    ❌ Trader Joe’s stores will be closed on Thanksgiving.

    Aldi

    ❌ Aldi will be closed on Thanksgiving.

    Reading Terminal Market

    ❌ Reading Terminal Market will be closed.

    Liquor stores

    Fine Wine & Good Spirits

    ❌ If you need wine for dinner, make sure to get it before Thanksgiving Day. Fine Wine & Good Spirits will be closed on Thursday, Nov. 27.

    Mail and packages

    U.S. Postal Service

    ❌ Post offices are closed on Thanksgiving Day.

    UPS, FedEx, and DHL

    UPS, FedEx, DHL are closed on Thanksgiving Day.

    Banks

    ❌ Most, if not all, banks including TD Bank, Bank of America, Wells Fargo, Chase Bank, and PNC Bank will be closed on Thanksgiving Day.

    Transit

    SEPTA

    ✅ SEPTA buses, trains, and trolleys will run on a Sunday schedule on Thanksgiving. You can follow real-time updates on the agency’s System Status website, via TransitView on the SEPTA app, or on Bluesky at @SEPTA_Bus.

    For more detailed information about route detours, check SEPTA’s System Status Page at septa.org.

    PATCO

    ✅ PATCO will be running on a holiday schedule, which you can view at ridepatco.org.

    Pharmacies

    CVS

    ✅ All non-24-hour CVS locations will close early on Thanksgiving. Call your local store before visiting or view hours at cvs.com/store-locator/landing.

    Walgreens

    ❌ All non-24-hour Walgreens locations will be closed for Thanksgiving Day. Check your local store’s hours at walgreens.com/storelocator.

    Trash collection

    ❌ There is no trash or recycling pickup during Thanksgiving or Black Friday. Trash pickup will resume two days later than scheduled. To find your trash and recycling collection day, go to phila.gov.

    Big-box retail

    Costco

    ❌ Costco will be closed on Thanksgiving Day, but reopen at 9 a.m. on Black Friday. Check your local Costco for Black Friday hours.

    Target

    ❌ Target will be closed on Thanksgiving Day, but reopen at 6 a.m. on Black Friday.

    Lowe’s

    ❌ Lowe’s stores will be closed on Thanksgiving Day, but reopen at 6 a.m. on Black Friday.

    Home Depot

    ❌ Home Depot locations will be closed on Thanksgiving Day, but reopen at 6 a.m. on Black Friday.

    Walmart

    ❌ Walmart locations will be closed on Thanksgiving Day, but reopen at 6 a.m. on Black Friday.

    Shopping malls

    ❌ The Shops at Liberty Place will be closed on Thanksgiving and reopen at 7 a.m. on Black Friday.

    ❌ Fashion District Philadelphia won’t be opening on Thanksgiving, but will reopen on Black Friday at 10 a.m.

    ❌ Franklin Mall, King of Prussia Mall, and Cherry Hill Mall will be closed on Thanksgiving. On Black Friday, Franklin Mall will open at 10 a.m., King of Prussia Mall will open at 6 a.m., and Cherry Hill Mall will open at 7 a.m.

  • Your guide to Philly’s 2025 Thanksgiving Day Parade

    Your guide to Philly’s 2025 Thanksgiving Day Parade

    When you think of a Thanksgiving parade do you immediately picture the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade in New York City? Well, you shouldn’t! Not when Philadelphia has its very own parade that happens to be the oldest Thanksgiving parade in the country. New York City may have Snoopy, but we have Red Fraggle from Fraggle Rock, OK? And if that’s not hip enough for you, we also have Peppa friggin’ Pig. Take that, Charlie Brown.

    Now in its 106th year, the 2025 6abc Dunkin’ Thanksgiving Day Parade will be stacked with performers and stars like Kelly Ripa and, did we already mention, Red Fraggle from Fraggle Rock? The cast of Abbott Elementary will be there too.

    Whether you plan on attending in person, or catching it on television, here is everything you need to know about the nation’s first (and best) Thanksgiving Day parade. Happy Thanksgiving, Philly.

    Red Fraggle from the hit TV show “Fraggle Rock ” makes her way down 16th Street toward the Parkway during the 6abc Dunkin’ Thanksgiving Day Parade in 2023.

    Parade route

    This year’s 6abc Dunkin’ Thanksgiving Day Parade broadcast starts at 8:30 a.m., with the parade kicking off at 9 a.m.

    The route starts at 20th Street and John F. Kennedy Boulevard and heads east toward 16th Street, where it turns left and heads north to the Benjamin Franklin Parkway. From there, the parade follows the Parkway west to Eakins Oval and the Philadelphia Art Museum, where it concludes. The parade is free to attend.

    Weather

    Thanksgiving is still a few days away, but early reports from Weather.com are calling for partly cloudy skies with highs hovering in the mid-40s and lows in the 30s.

    Make sure to check the National Weather Service the day before Thanksgiving for the most accurate forecast.

    Thanksgiving parade road closures

    The following street closures will be in effect on Thursday, Nov. 27:

    Midnight to noon

    • 20th Street between JFK Boulevard and Market Street

    2 a.m. to 11 a.m.

    • 20th Street between the Ben Franklin Parkway and Race Street

    5 a.m. to noon

    • 20th Sreet between JFK Boulevard and Arch Street

    6 a.m. to noon

    • 20th Street between Market Street and the Ben Franklin Parkway

    7:30 a.m. until the end of the parade

    Full parade route, including:

    • JFK Boulevard from 30th Street to 16th Street
    • 20th Street from Market Street to the Ben Franklin Parkway
    • 16th Street from JFK Boulevard to the Ben Franklin Parkway
    • Ben Franklin Parkway to the Art Museum

    Parking

    There will be “Temporary No Parking” signs posted in areas on and around the parade route starting Wednesday, Nov. 26, at 6 p.m., the Office of Special Events said. Cars parked in prohibited parking areas will be relocated. If you believe your car has been relocated, The Inquirer has a guide on what to do when you’ve been “courtesy towed.”

    Metered parking elsewhere in the city is free on Thanksgiving. Additionally, you can check the Philadelphia Parking Authority’s website for a list of parking garages and parking lots around the parade route.

    SEPTA service

    The parade route is blocked off to traffic, impacting SEPTA’s bus service from 2 a.m. until 5 p.m. on Thursday, Nov. 27.

    Routes affected during this time include Route 2, Route 7, Route 17, Route 27, Route 31, Route 33, Route 38, Route 43, Route 44, Route 48, Route 49, Route 124, Route 125, L1 OWL.

    For detailed information about route detours, check SEPTA’s System Status Page at septa.org. You can also follow real-time updates on the agency’s System Status website, via TransitView on the SEPTA app, or on X at @SEPTA_Bus.

    Actor Lisa Ann Walter, from “Abbott Elementary,” waves to the crowd during the 105th Thanksgiving Day Parade in 2024 in Philadelphia.

    Parade floats and performers

    Guests this year include the aforementioned Kelly Ripa and Mark Consuelos, Ryan Seacrest, Vanna White from Wheel of Fortune, former NFL quarterback Troy Aikman, and Good Morning America weather forecaster Sam Champion. There will also be performances from the iconic funk group Cameo and Motown legends the Four Tops.

    As for the floats, you saw our note about Red from Fraggle Rock, right? What more could you want?

    Where to watch

    If you’re looking to attend the parade, you can watch from anywhere along its route, for free.

    Some favorite spots to watch include the Franklin Institute, the Philadelphia Museum of Art, Eakins Oval, and Logan Circle.

    How to watch from home

    The parade will air live from 8:30 a.m. until noon on 6abc and can be streamed via the station’s website, the 6abc Philadelphia News App, or on Disney+ and ABCNewsLive beginning at 9 a.m.

  • Dear Abby | Boy’s paternal family refuses to acknowledge family relation

    DEAR ABBY: I had a child with “Richard,” whom I met 10 years ago. I was married at the time but had been separated from my husband, “Eddy,” for nine months. Richard and I hit it off well; I was very attracted to him. Five months after we met, I accidentally became pregnant. When Richard found out, he bolted. We stayed in contact, and he met our son, “Brady,” twice.

    Eddy and I reunited when Brady was 3, and since Richard was out of the picture, we requested to sever his rights so Eddy could adopt him. Richard didn’t show up, so legally we were able to proceed.

    When we found out Richard had never told his family about Brady, I reached out to them. They want nothing to do with us! They don’t believe my son is a part of their family because rights were severed and they never knew about him, even though I have pictures of Brady and Richard together and Brady knows who he is.

    Eddy and I have now been divorced for four years. I feel terrible for the way my son is being treated. Should I leave them all alone and close that chapter?

    — TANGLED WEB IN ARIZONA

    DEAR TANGLED WEB: Continuing to pursue Richard’s family will get you nowhere. That chapter closed when Richard gave up his parental rights to Brady and Eddy adopted the little boy. Until your son is no longer a minor, Eddy may have a financial responsibility for him. I hope he is acting more responsibly than Brady’s biological father did and that their relationship will continue in spite of the divorce.

    ** ** **

    DEAR ABBY: I have been married for almost 40 years. I’m recently retired, in great shape and very active. I hike, bike, walk, play golf and do strength training. My wife will retire soon. She’s 100% sedentary and does none of these activities with me. She has mobility issues that could be corrected with surgery, but she refuses to have the surgery, which means her mobility issues will worsen. She’ll need a caregiver to help her in the not-too-distant future — which will be me.

    This may sound selfish, but I didn’t sign up for this. I feel the enjoyment of my retirement will never happen because she refuses to help herself. Is it wrong for me to think about divorcing her because she takes no responsibility for herself and expects me to take care of her, which will prevent me from enjoying my golden years?

    — END OF MY ROPE IN NEW YORK

    DEAR END: You stated that you “didn’t sign up for this.” Well, nobody does. When you and your wife took your wedding vows, “… in sickness and in health …” this IS what you signed up for. That your wife is so frightened of surgery to correct her issues that she’s refusing to have it is sad for both of you. Perhaps if you tell her what you have written to me, it might motivate her to assume more responsibility for her health. A way to start would be to consult her doctor about a prudent path forward.

  • Her path to ‘having it all?’ Be gay and move to Philly, a Wharton economist says.

    Her path to ‘having it all?’ Be gay and move to Philly, a Wharton economist says.

    Corinne Low, a Wharton economist, didn’t have to search far for an example of how women’s familial and professional choices are shaped by an uneven playing field.

    In 2017, Low gave birth to her son while building a tenure-track career. Her life soon began to feel unmanageable. She was commuting up to six hours a day from Manhattan to Wharton while also taking care of the household tasks that kept her family functioning: groceries, laundry, cooking, childcare.

    The situation reached a crisis point when Low found herself pumping in an Amtrak bathroom while crying; she had been in transit for hours and realized she wouldn’t make it home to see her son before bed.

    Low, 41, was not a single parent. But her husband had recently left his job to start his own business, a choice that did not reduce his working hours, but did reduce his salary — to zero.

    Low’s personal story is the entry point to her new book, Having it All: What Data Tells Us About Women’s Lives and Getting The Most Out of Yours, part self-help manifesto and part economic tract.

    Wharton professor Corinne Low (right) and her, wife Sondra Woodruff, spend time after dinner playing and reading with their kids.

    When Low examined her own life, she made two major changes that freed her time and altered her circumstances. First, she divorced her husband and decided to exclusively date women. (A summer article in the Cut about Low, headlined “This Economist Crunched the Numbers and Stopped Dating Men,” went viral.) She is now married to a woman.

    The less viral but equally meaningful shift was that she left New York City — and embraced Philly.

    “The underplayed hero of my story, of the changes that I made, was moving to Philadelphia,” she said recently in an interview. “That was actually the more important upgrade.”

    When she was living in Manhattan and struggling to keep up, friends had recommended that she hire a live-in au pair, which they said was a more affordable, less transactional form of childcare. But of course, like most New Yorkers, Low had no spare room.

    In Philadelphia, she was able to afford a bigger house with more space, which meant she could have an au pair. And her commute went from over two hours to seven minutes by bike, freeing her to build a life “filled with friends, community, time outdoors.”

    It all added up. In Philadelphia, Low writes, “I rediscovered myself. I found who I had been before I became a stressed-out, angry, rapidly aging person. I was fun! I was creative! I could relax.“ (She adds the disclaimer that she is “not advocating that everyone who reads this book should leave their marriage and move to a new city,” although, perhaps they should, assuming they move to the right city.)

    The book analyzes economic data to show women how to get a “better deal” for themselves.

    She wanted to show that the feeling many working women experience — of being under siege from all sides, unable to figure out how to gloriously “have it all” — was not some symptom of being hysterical, but was instead rooted in data.

    “I want people to figure out how to claw back some of their time from these structural forces that are squeezing us,” Low said. “Knowing the data, it gives you permission to make some of those choices.”

    She found that even in families where women were the primary breadwinners, they still overwhelmingly had to put in a “second shift” at home. Some statistics in the book are startling: For example, men who earn only 20% of the household income in a heterosexual family do the same amount of housework as those who earn 80% of the family’s income, which Low found by analyzing the American Time Use Survey, a massive dataset of how individuals spend their time.

    That means even when a woman earns more than twice what her partner earns, she also does twice as much cooking and cleaning.

    “That bothers me, because it’s inefficient,” Low said. “Because you’re using the ‘more expensive’ person’s time on these home production tasks.”

    In the book, Low aims to advise women on how to get a “better deal” for themselves, by employing the stark logic of her field.

    She writes about how women might improve their “personal utility function,” which she describes as a “personal video game score at the end of your life,” grounded in one’s priorities and values. She urges women to think about dating as a job interview for a co-executive in a multipronged, multiyear enterprise, and to think of a job as a “technology for converting time into money.”

    She also encourages readers to throw away their houseplants if they are not increasing personal utility function.

    “You need to be ruthless in protecting your time from things that are not investments in your future and do not bring you joy,” she writes.

    Corinne Low and her wife, Sondra Woodruff pictured here with their kids at Clark Park. ,

    One of her most interesting arguments is that women today effectively “hire themselves” for too many jobs within the home. It has become normalized to outsource “male-coded” tasks, like changing a car’s oil or fixing an electrical outlet, by hiring a specialist to do it, Low said.

    But women have not updated their mindsets about the market value of their time, and so there remains stigma to outsourcing “female-coded” tasks, like laundry, cooking, or home childcare.

    Low sees Having It All as a rejoinder to Sheryl Sandberg’s Lean In: While “leaning in is doing more of what’s not working,” as Low put it, she wants readers of her book to “level up” by removing whatever constraints they’re able to.

    Of course, many of the problems facing working women remain systemic, and she writes in the book’s afterword about the necessity of societal changes, including parental leave underwritten by the federal government and creative thinking by employers about how to allow female employees to meet both their professional and domestic obligations during peak child-rearing eras.

    After a book tour, Low is now back in Philly with her two young children and her wife and still reveling in the charms of her city.

    “When I was busy and on book tour,” she said, “neighbors walked my son to school.”

    Readers told Low that they are making changes to their personal lives based on the book. No one has told her they’re moving to Philadelphia — yet.

  • Dear Abby | Chided boyfriend has nursed a grudge for six years

    DEAR ABBY: My daughter is asking me to apologize to her boyfriend, “Harry,” for yelling at him when I was helping them move six years ago. (I had traveled 250 miles to help.) The day of the move, Harry didn’t take the day off work, so he wasn’t there to help. (They had a second-floor unit with no elevator.) When he finally did show up, he proceeded to slow-walk taking out the recycling stuff.

    At the new place, Harry helped somewhat, but when the food was delivered, rather than continue to help, he decided to sit down and eat while the other two helpers and I continued moving stuff in. (This was 10 hours into the move.) That’s when I lost it. I yelled at him for not helping more. All he had done in his relationship with my daughter was go to work, come home and play video games. He didn’t help around the house or show any interest in helping with their son.

    Over the last few years, Harry has changed somewhat in helping with his son, but my daughter now feels stuck in the middle and wants me to apologize to him for yelling. I have made no disparaging remarks about him since. I even liked some of his posts on Facebook.

    I have gotten over it, but it seems Harry hasn’t. I told my daughter he needs professional help. The last time I visited, he stayed in a hotel for the weekend. My son says it should be an apology going both ways and should come from Harry first. What do you think?

    — FAMILY DILEMMA IN CANADA

    DEAR FAMILY DILEMMA: Face it. Your daughter’s boyfriend is an overgrown child. Count your blessings that she isn’t married to him. Someone has to be an adult, and I am voting for you to fill that role by taking the first step. Hold your nose and apologize to Harry, if only for your daughter’s sake.

    ** ** **

    DEAR ABBY: Should parents be allowed to send birthday invitations to school if only select students are the recipients of the invitation? I’m the parent of a (very) special needs pre-K child. Daily, I feel the heartache of her challenges and her desire for connection with others. On the parent FB group, someone recently posted about their daughter’s birthday. It said those who received an invite should text the cell phone number listed for a change of plans. We never received an invite.

    Were we the only ones excluded? If I’m honest, my emotions may be particularly fragile when it comes to my daughter and inclusion. I do think people should be able to invite only their friends. However, it seems to me that discretion on the part of the parent who is hosting would be more polite and kind. Parents should make a point to know their child’s friends’ parents’ contact information. Do you have an opinion?

    — UNINVITED IN THE EAST

    DEAR UNINVITED: I’m with you 100%, speaking for myself as an adult who was once a child who was excluded. For many reasons, parents should make a point of having their child’s friends’ parents’ contact information. That information could be crucial in case of an emergency.

  • Why are there thousands of tabletop role-playing game players in Philadelphia this weekend?

    Why are there thousands of tabletop role-playing game players in Philadelphia this weekend?

    On Friday morning, Kayla wore glittery makeup and a big smile as she stood inside the Convention Center. “I used to live in Philadelphia and I came to be with my siblings, and we all love board games, so it’s just a great time,” she said.

    The Crestview, Fla., resident is a former Philadelphian who came back to the city to attend Pax Unplugged, the gaming convention she loves returning to.

    On Friday, the massive main hall at the Convention Center was crammed to the brim with booths selling game accessories, memorabilia, and whimsical gifts like plushies and stickers.

    On one side, gamers were engrossed in games of Magic or Dungeons & Dragons. Influencers sat in special areas to meet fans and sign autographs amid a constant hum of chatter and excited energy.

    Guests attend Pax Unplugged, held at the Pennsylvania Convention Center on Friday, Nov. 21, 2025. The gaming convention, which is held in Philadelphia every year, has become a major event for fans of Dungeons & Dragons, Warhammer, Magic: The Gathering, and other tabletop role-playing games.

    While other conventions in the Pax family include video games, Philly’s Unplugged focuses on tabletop games. Anyone looking for the Valhalla of tabletop role-playing games, accessories, merch, and communities was in the right place.

    Since November 2017, Pax Unplugged has become a major event for fans of Dungeons & Dragons, Warhammer, Magic: The Gathering, and other tabletop role-playing games, and it’s held only in Philadelphia. Pax, “a celebration of gaming and gaming culture,” holds conventions in other cities, like Boston (for Pax East) and Seattle (for Pax West), but the Unplugged convention is exclusive to Philadelphia, drawing fans, vendors, and special guests from all over the country.

    The 2025 edition of Pax Unplugged plays host to major Dungeons & Dragons stars and personalities — like Dropout TV standouts Ify Nwadiwe and Aabria Iyengar as well as Critical Role star Matthew Mercer, the last of whom also lent his voice to the Nintendo game The Legend of Zelda: Tears of the Kingdom.

    Guests attend Pax Unplugged, held at the Pennsylvania Convention Center on Friday, Nov. 21, 2025.

    Heidi Archer, who owns and operates Meloria Maille — which sells handmade jewelry, trinkets, and stickers — travels from Derry, N.H., every year to run a vendor booth at Pax Unplugged. “I love gamers and I’m a nerd myself, and the fact that I can bring my handmade goods to the nerd populace … it makes it worth it,” said Archer, who has worked at Pax three times. “And I bring them stuff that represents queer pride in fandoms that people might not otherwise have access to.”

    At Archer’s stall, there were stickers and other items that represented the LGBTQ+ and Dungeons & Dragons communities. A sticker on sale proclaimed “Naturally Genderfluid” with a 20-sided die as a reference to rolling a “natural 20.”

    Guests attend Pax Unplugged, held at the Pennsylvania Convention Center on Friday, Nov. 21, 2025.

    This inclusivity is a big part of what brings fans and merch-makers back to Philadelphia every year.

    Chris Vicari had traveled from New York City to attend his fourth Pax Unplugged. “[It] is a great representation of how inclusive the community is.” said Vicari, the author of Behind the Screen: A Dungeon Master’s Guide to Crafting Campaigns, who also runs a Substack about crafting Dungeons & Dragons games.

    “This is the warmest tabletop show. It’s not the biggest, but it’s the warmest,” said Patrick Rami, the owner of Lethal Shadows, which makes “miniatures” — small figurines used for gameplay during Dungeons & Dragons. This was the fifth time he had traveled from Seattle to attend the convention.

    “This is one of everybody’s favorite shows as a vendor,” said Quentin Weir, a managing partner of Elderwood Academy, which makes Dungeons & Dragons dice sets and other items.

    “It’s a consumer show, so you’re talking directly to the community. It can be hard to make this work in other markets, but Philly has been great,” said Weir, a Ypsilanti, Mich., resident, who once had to deal with a dead car battery at a previous Pax Unplugged visit. Without hesitating, he said, Convention Center staffers gave the car a jump.

    Guests at Pax Unplugged held at the Pennsylvania Convention Center on Friday, Nov. 21, 2025. The gaming convention that is held in Philadelphia every year, has become a major event for fans of Dungeons & Dragons, Warhammer, Magic: The Gathering, and other tabletop role-playing games.

    Weir and his team have been to Pax Unplugged seven times.

    Across three days, Pax Unplugged offers panels, vendors selling all kinds of TTRPG-related goodies, and even massive table setups where people can hang out and play marathon rounds of whichever games they want.

    There’s also quite a bit of cosplay action, as many attendees show up in elaborate costumes.

    One fan, Emily, was dressed as her Dungeons & Dragons character Mara, carrying a staff and adorned in a mushroom-themed outfit complete with a cap. (For those in the know, Emily informed us that Mara is a “nature slash death cleric.”)

    “I feel like there’s not much else locally that’s available for our community,” said Emily, who lives in Lancaster and has attended six Pax Unplugged conventions.

    From stalls full of intricately carved miniature figurines to brand new independent tabletop role-playing games on display, Pax Unplugged is a feast for any TTRPG fan. In an increasingly divided world, it’s thrilling — whether you play board games or not — to spend time in a space where people feel free, happy, and literally playful.

    Pax Unplugged runs through Sunday at the Convention Center, 1101 Arch St. unplugged.paxsite.com

  • They wanted to buy their friend’s place. They ended up with an East Falls rowhouse instead. | How I Bought This House

    They wanted to buy their friend’s place. They ended up with an East Falls rowhouse instead. | How I Bought This House

    The buyers: Jessica Lubniewski, 41, museum educator; David Jacobs, 40, electrical engineer

    The house: A 1,300-square-foot rowhouse in East Falls with 3 bedrooms and 1½ baths, built in 1930.

    The price: listed for $325,000; purchased for $327,500

    The agent: Benjamin Camp, Elfant Wissahickon

    The ask: Jessica Lubniewski and David Jacobs didn’t want to buy just any house; they wanted to buy their friend’s house. But when the friend didn’t accept their offer, they had to pivot.

    The couple started looking for houses that cost less than $375,000 in East Falls. They wanted at least three bedrooms, a bathroom on the first floor, and a dining room that was big enough to entertain. “That was a really big thing for me,” said Lubniewski. They also wanted character and original details — not a recently flipped property.

    Lubniewski and Jacobs in their dining room that is big enough to entertain.

    The search: The couple went to a few open houses and spent their evenings browsing Zillow listings, where Lubniewski spied a preview listing for a house that wouldn’t be on the market for a few weeks. “I just kept looking at it and being like, ‘Man, that house looks so cool,’” said Lubniewski. “It was right around the corner from where we were renting our apartment and had all the things we were looking for.” Lubniewski and Jacobs told their agent they wanted to see the house and he worked to get them “the first viewing on the first day that it was on the market,” said Jacobs.

    The appeal: The couple loved the look of the first floor, which includes two fireplaces. “Neither of them are working,” said Lubniewski, but the mantles are “so beautiful.” The one in the living room has its original facade.

    The arched doorways in between the living room and the dining room and the dining room and the kitchen give “a nice look,” said Lubniewski. Jacobs appreciates the house’s central air system.

    Arched doorways separate the living room from the dining room and the dining room from the kitchen

    The deal: A few hours after visiting the home, the couple put in an offer. Their agent suggested they bid a few thousand dollars over the asking price, so they offered $2,500 more for a total of $327,500. Lubniewski thinks they may have been the only people to see the house.

    The seller accepted their offer and after the inspection, agreed to cover $5,000 of the closing costs. He also threw in the patio furniture and the grill. In exchange, the couple did a 30-day closing.

    “It all happened pretty smoothly and pretty quickly,” said Lubniewski.

    One of the couple’s favorite aspects of the house were the two original fireplace mantels in the living room and the dining room.

    The money: The couple had $90,000 to spend on their home. That included $40,000 of personal savings.

    “We don’t have any kids. We don’t have a lot of expenses,” said Lubniewski regarding how they were able to save. And after Jacobs got his current job as an electrical engineer, they were “able to save a lot quite easily,” she added, a first for both of them.

    They also got $40,000 from Jacobs’ parents, and additional money they inherited from relatives who died earlier in the year.

    They tried to pursue a first-time homebuyer’s mortgage but were about $500 over the income limit, Lubniewski said, so they got a 30-year-mortgage with a 6.45% interest rate instead. They put 20% down, about $65,000.

    The move: Lubniewski and Jacobs made a few changes to the house before they moved in, including ripping out the carpeting upstairs. “It was horrible work, so gross,” said Lubniewski. They hired someone to redo the floors and buff the original hardwood downstairs. They officially moved in at the end of July, said Lubniewski, “on what felt like the hottest day of the summer.”

    Original details, like the woodworking on the staircase banister, was important to Jacobs and Lubniewski.

    Any reservations? Jacobs wishes they had time to replace the old electrical wiring they discovered after they moved in. “In the basement the electrical all looked really good, and the inspector didn’t flag anything.” But when they tried to replace a light fixture in the dining room, they encountered old, fabric-wrapped wire, an outdated type of electrical wiring that exists in many old homes. They think there may be more, but they don’t want to bust through the walls right now to find out.

    Life after close: Since moving in, Jacobs and Lubniewski have been busy getting to know their neighbors. In fact, a woman who grew up in the house stopped by on Halloween and asked to peek inside. “She was really excited,” said Lubniewski. She even had her son take a photo in front of the fireplace mantel, the same spot her mother took a photo of her on Halloween in the ‘70s. “It’s always so interesting to know what has changed,” Lubniewski said. Or in the case of the fireplace mantel, what hasn’t.

    Did you recently buy a home? We want to hear about it. Email acovington@inquirer.com.

  • Is it rude to bring a store-bought Thanksgiving dish when everyone else is cooking from scratch?

    Is it rude to bring a store-bought Thanksgiving dish when everyone else is cooking from scratch?

    It’s almost Thanksgiving and maybe you’re not the cooking type. Or maybe you just have too much on your … plate. I invited two Inquirer journalists to answer the age-old holiday conundrum. We do get to the bottom of it.

    Evan Weiss, deputy features editor: OK, the question is …

    Is it rude to bring a store-bought Thanksgiving dish when everyone else is cooking from scratch?

    Margaret Eby, food editor: I feel very strongly about this! The answer is no, of course not! Unless you said you were bringing a homemade casserole and show up with a bag of half-eaten Doritos or something, it’s not rude.

    Sam Ruland, features planning and coverage editor: I think it comes down to how much you like these people.

    Margaret Eby: Oooh OK so homemade is only for people you like? Or vice versa?

    Sam Ruland: If they’re the relatives you adore, put in the effort. Make something, even if it’s simple.

    If they’re the relatives who fight over politics and ask why you’re still single? Pay $12.99 for a pie, pop it on a plate, and walk in confidently.

    Margaret Eby: Hahahah that’s a spicy take. To me, I appreciate someone bringing something. I love cooking! But I don’t always have the energy.

    I also have a weird problem, which is that people don’t like cooking for food editors and writers. I think they assume I’ll judge them in the same way we review restaurants, and that’s not true at all. I find it to be a huge compliment whenever anyone cooks me anything, down to a grilled cheese.

    But maybe that’s part of why I feel like it’s fine to let yourself and other people off the hook. Plus, restaurants and bakers and other professionals are great at cooking! It’s fine to let them cook for you!

    Sam Ruland: I totally get that — cooking for food people does feel like a high-stakes audition.

    Margaret Eby: That’s just because you can’t see us behind the screen eating string cheese for lunch.

    Sam Ruland: And this is where my chaotic Thanksgiving philosophy kicks in: I’m a huge fan of buying something and quietly placing it in your own dish like you spent hours on it. If it saves your sanity, do it.

    Margaret Eby: I support that entirely.

    It is not anyone’s business who made those potatoes.

    Evan Weiss: OK, what’s the best thing to buy and pass off as your own?

    Margaret Eby: A whole pizza.

    No, just kidding. But bringing a whole pizza to a party — it’s kind of a baller move.

    Bring a Johnny’s Pizza from Bryn Mawr?

    Sam Ruland: Honestly, I’m more offended not by someone buying it from the store, but by not even trying to hide it. At least commit to the bit! Put it in a real dish!

    Margaret Eby: I think if you’re attempting to pass it off as your own, you do have to be a little realistic. Like that beautifully crafted hand-latticed pie is a great thing to bring. But if you don’t bake pie, your cover is going to be blown pretty quickly.

    The homemade thing people are always impressed by no matter how “rustic” it looks is bread, I’ve found. I’ll bring over a really complicated dish and bread as an appetizer, and people are always more impressed by the bread

    Sam Ruland: Right, the pie lie has limits. This is why I fully endorse buying something like lobster mac and cheese, putting it in your casserole dish, and sighing deeply like it took you hours. Play to your strengths: commitment and presentation.

    Margaret Eby: Feigning struggle is an important part of Thanksgiving!

    Sam Ruland: The sigh, the smudge of flour on your shirt that you did not earn — it’s all part of the illusion.

    Evan Weiss: Also, so many great restaurants around here do great Thanksgiving takeout. You might get some cred if you say where you got it. (Also, bonus because then you don’t have to lie.)

    Sam Ruland: That’s true, restaurant flexing is its own kind of prestige. But I maintain: the quiet dignity of transferring it to your own dish and pretending you suffered for it? Iconic.

    Margaret Eby: I think if you put the thought into picking up a fabulous pie from The Bread Room or a whole bundle of goodies from Zig Zag, for example, people will be just as impressed by that effort as if you made it your own.

    Or I would be, anyway.

    The Bread Room by High Street Hospitality’s line up of Thanksgiving treats, clockwise from right to left: miso caramel apple pie, dirty chai chocolate pie, and basque pumpkin cheesecake.

    Sam Ruland: True! Like my family loves the cannolis from Isgros, so that’s something that would be a crowd pleaser no matter what and wouldn’t get grumbles.

    Margaret Eby: Picking up cheese from DiBruno’s is also a great move. And you don’t have to pretend that you have a secret cheese cave in your basement.

    However, I believe that the holidays are all about long-running bits with your friends and family. And passing off a dish as your own instead of purchased is a classic bit.

    So maybe DO pretend you made the cheese, why not.

    Evan Weiss: “Yes, I made this wine in Sonoma in 2013!”

    Margaret Eby: “It was a great year, thanks!”

    Evan Weiss: So the answer is: No, it’s not rude to bring prepared food. But either commit to the bit or get it from somewhere good.

    Margaret Eby: Yep, we solved it.

    And don’t be like my friend in college who would bring a ziplock bag of whiskey to parties.

    No one appreciates that.


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  • River views, historic gardens, and standout eats in Richmond, Va. | Field Trip

    River views, historic gardens, and standout eats in Richmond, Va. | Field Trip

    Wilmington, Baltimore, Washington — watch their exits blur past on I-95 as you head farther south and see color return to the trees. The leaves that have already fallen in Fairmount Park and Rittenhouse Square seem to reappear here, lighting up the old oaks and elms that line Richmond’s stately streets. Autumn clings a little longer in this university town, where nature — from wild riverside woods to formal gardens — feels ever-present.

    Just over four hours from Philly, Richmond, Va., offers everything you’d want in a weekend escape: smart restaurants, fascinating history, and a new hotel from one of the country’s most creative hospitality groups.

    Fuel: Sub Rosa Bakery

    One of the best bakeries in the country, Sub Rosa calls Richmond’s Church Hill neighborhood home. After a devastating 2024 fire and a long rebuild, it reopens this November — and it’s absolutely where any RVA weekend should begin. Made with house-milled Virginia and Pennsylvania flours, its pastries include croissants stuffed with garlicky mushrooms or sour cherry-pistachio, crunchy biscotti, and polenta thumbprints filled with housemade jam. Order one of everything — you’ll wish you had anyway.

    📍 620 N. 25th St., Richmond, Va. 23223

    Learn: Poe Museum

    A 15-minute walk from Sub Rosa (just enough time to finish that coffee and croissant) brings you to the Poe Museum. Edgar Allen grew up and worked as a journalist in Richmond before achieving literary acclaim, a life chronicled inside this petite museum founded in 1922. It’s filled with letters, first editions, and personal relics — including the silver candelabras by which Poe wrote The Bells. The museum complex includes the Old Stone House (the oldest standing residence in the city), Poe Shrine, and the lush Enchanted Garden. Keep an eye out for the resident black cats, whose shenanigans are detailed on the @poemuseumcats Instagram account.

    📍 1914 E. Main St., Richmond, Va. 23223

    Stay: Shenandoah Mansions

    Ash Hotels’ forte is retrofitting historic buildings into eccentric, artsy-craftsy inns, and the new Shenandoah Mansions is no exception. Expect four-posted beds draped in tentlike canopies, block-printed quilts, hand-painted lamps, and checkerboard-tiled showers. Located in the Fan District — a neighborhood full of architectural candy — the inn feels residential yet central to everything.

    📍 501 N. Allen Ave., Richmond, Va. 23220

    Hike: James River Park System

    One of Richmond’s greatest assets is its proximity to nature. The James River Park System covers more than 600 acres, all within walking distance of Broad Street, the city’s main thoroughfare. Pick up the head of the North Bank Trail at South Cherry Street and Oregon Hill Parkway for an hourlong walk along boardwalks and dirt paths, past historic cemeteries, and through tunnels of color-changing leaves.

    📍 4001 Riverside Dr., Richmond, Va. 23225

    Visit: Maymont

    Exit the trail near Hampton Street and Kansas Avenue, and you’ll find yourself at Maymont, a 19th-century estate built by financier James Dooley and his wife, Sallie. Though the Gilded Age mansion is closed to tours while undergoing renovation, the grounds alone are reason to visit. Wander through the Italian Garden, along the butterfly trail, and through the Japanese Garden (the oldest on the East Coast), where boulder-backed waterfalls, koi ponds, and storybook bridges create incredible photos.

    📍 1700 Hampton St., Richmond, Va. 23220

    Drink: The Jefferson Hotel

    Fires, fortunes, presidents — and even a few alligators — have passed through the grand Jefferson Hotel since it opened in 1895. Every visitor should see the lobby’s marble floors and sweeping staircase, even if you’re not checking in. Stop by TJ’s Restaurant & Lounge for a predinner cocktail under the chandeliers; the Rotunda old-fashioned tastes like grapefruit, walnut, and old money.

    📍 101 W. Franklin St., Richmond, Va. 23220

    Dine: Stella’s

    A Richmond legend since 1983, Stella’s remains the last word in Greek cooking here. The food (artichoke moussaka, ouzo-kissed crab cakes, feta-and-Manouri cheese fries covered in shaved lamb) is just enough off-center from traditional to be interesting, while still honoring the soulfulness of the country’s cuisine. The regulars pack the dining room, creating a comfortable, gregarious vibe. Go ahead and think it: If we lived in Richmond, we’d be here all the time.

    📍 1012 Lafayette St., Richmond, Va. 23221