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  • Dear Abby | Plans for anniversary suddenly includes woman’s in-laws

    DEAR ABBY: My husband and I discussed our 25th anniversary and mentioned Hawaii as a possibility. He reached out to his brother and sister-in-law for suggestions, since they have visited Hawaii twice and we never have.

    My husband mentioned to my sister-in-law (without consulting me) that maybe the four of us should travel together to Hawaii. Now my in-laws want to travel with us! My husband is enthusiastic because it will lower the cost. I am very hurt that I wasn’t even consulted. I didn’t know until I overheard them talking about splitting costs on the Hawaii trip.

    Abby, I was not planning a 25th anniversary as a foursome. My husband is calling me a “sourpuss” for not jumping on board with the plan. In my mind, it’s supposed to be an anniversary, not a couples retreat. Am I wrong?

    — CROWDED IN THE SOUTH

    DEAR CROWDED: You are not in the wrong. That your husband and in-laws would alter the plans for your 25th anniversary without consulting you is disrespectful. You should have been consulted. That he has now resorted to name-calling because you are upset is out of line.

    If you feel you won’t be happy celebrating this milestone with them, tell your sister-in-law this was sprung on you with no preparation, which you feel was wrong, and you are not happy about it. Then decide which YOU would prefer — to travel to Hawaii as a group anyway or to just stay home.

    ** ** **

    DEAR ABBY: My father is an antiques collector. He spends every weekend at estate auctions and much of the rest of his time buying for shops. He is experienced and prides himself in knowing the value of things.

    For my birthday, Dad gave me an old copy of a favorite book. He said it was a first edition and worth a lot despite its poor condition. The title page, where the publishing date and run would appear, was missing. The issue is that it ISN’T a first (or even a second) edition. It has the wrong cover and is actually a later run that just had a rough life. I know Dad knew this. The information is easy to find, and I’m pretty sure he cut out the title page so he could pass it off as what he said it was.

    I don’t know why he did this — there could be any number of reasons — but he keeps bragging about what great a gift it was. Should I say something the next time he brings it up? Having the lie hanging out there feels uncomfortable.

    — WONDERING IN THE EAST

    DEAR WONDERING: Be kind. Just thank your father again and resist the urge to tell him you know he is fibbing. If you suspected he had been taken advantage of by a bookseller, I might have answered differently and suggest you warn him about doing business with someone who is unscrupulous. However, because you stated that he’s experienced, I hesitate to advise you to put him on the spot.

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    DEAR READERS: It’s Halloween, a time for fun and fantasy! I hope that any celebrating you do tonight will be creative, fun AND SAFE for everyone involved. Happy Halloweeeeen!

    — LOVE, ABBY

  • Horoscopes: Friday, Oct. 31, 2025

    ARIES (March 21-April 19). Your best trick is showing up fearless, even when you’re making it up as you go. Your best treat is the thrill of spontaneity. You’ll be admired for your bravery. You dive in first and figure it out later.

    TAURUS (April 20-May 20). Your best trick is transforming the ordinary into luxury, adding comfort and beauty where none was expected. Your best treat is simple pleasures done well. Tonight, it’s about good food, cozy vibes and affection so sweet it could rot a tooth.

    GEMINI (May 21-June 21). Your best trick is how you change the game with a few well-chosen words — quips that are clever, sly and funny. Your best treat is being the spark that makes everyone lean closer to hear more.

    CANCER (June 22-July 22). Your best trick is conjuring safety wherever you go, creating a haven in chaos. Your best treat is the sweetness of being everyone’s “home base,” and tonight they’ll gravitate toward you for grounding.

    LEO (July 23-Aug. 22). Your best trick is how you can turn any room into your stage. Your best treat is the joy of basking in admiration, not because you demanded it, but because your warmth lights the way.

    VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22). Your best trick is noticing the details no one else sees. It will mean a lot to the ones who put a lot of care into their celebration of the night. Your best treat is the trust you inspire when people realize you’ll catch what they miss.

    LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23). Your best trick is making the difficult look effortless, from outfits to logistics; you’ll put your excellent taste to work. Your best treat is the harmony you leave behind, like fairy dust that lingers after you’ve gone.

    SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 21). Your best trick is seeing the truth hiding under every mask. Whether you reveal your knowledge — that’s up to you. Your best treat is intensity. Even fleeting connections become unforgettable as everything seems to bend to your magnetism.

    SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21). Your best trick is turning the rules into guidelines that keep games fun. To you, the restrictions are hallways — just another way to move through the adventure. Your best treat is wide, bright, contagious laughter.

    CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19). Your best trick is the way you employ leadership skills to conjure order from chaos. Your best treat is the dignity you radiate. It elevates all. Others bring the best version of themselves to your presence.

    AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18). Your best trick is defying expectations, slipping out of every box they try to put you in. Your best treat is freedom. You feel it and live it. You grant it to others just by being yourself.

    PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20). Your best trick is applying your limitless imagination to dreaming something into existence before anyone else believes it’s possible. Your best treat is empathy; you know how to dissolve loneliness in an instant.

    TODAY’S BIRTHDAY (Oct. 31). Welcome to your Year of Marvelous Breakthroughs. What seems impossible becomes second nature in a matter of months. Work turns profitable after a strange experiment. You’ll fall for someone’s quirks and be delighted when they love yours, too. More highlights: An old habit breaks, replaced with something healing. A negotiation goes your way. Creative work draws applause and new fans. Taurus and Sagittarius adore you. Your lucky numbers are: 5, 11, 33, 48 and 17.

  • HBCU excellence was on display Thursday at the Linc, and the stars were out to witness it

    HBCU excellence was on display Thursday at the Linc, and the stars were out to witness it

    Although the Eagles are on their bye week, Lincoln Financial Field was put to good use on Thursday night. Delaware State, coached by former Eagles receiver DeSean Jackson, hosted Norfolk State, coached by former Eagles quarterback Michael Vick.

    The two former teammates made a return to their former home for their first battle as college football head coaches in a primetime HBCU matchup. From the halftime show to special appearances from mainstream stars, HBCU excellence was on full display.

    Here are the highlights of what took place on Thursday night…

    Norfolk State head coach Michael Vick watches in the waning moments of his team’s loss to Delaware State in Thursday night’s HBCU showdown at Lincoln Financial Field.

    Stars were out at the Linc

    In addition to the action on the field, the star power on the sideline was worth the admission. The easiest one to spot was former quarterback Cam Newton.

    At halftime, wearing an all-tan fit with a massive fedora decorated in pins, the three-time Pro Bowler danced and posed with fans just moments before North Philly rapper Meek Mill walked along the sideline.

    But, a more familiar face to the Linc was also in attendance: Brandon Graham. The defensive end sported an all-blue sweatsuit as he supported his former teammates Jackson and Vick.

    Former running back Marshawn Lynch also attended Thursday night’s game.

    ‘HBCU excellence’ on display

    Plenty of fans made their way through the main concourse excited to watch both HBCU teams play at Lincoln Financial Field. Whether they were representing the colors of Delaware State or Norfolk State, wearing vintage Eagles’ Jackson and Vick jerseys, or showing off their Greek letters, they gathered together with pride of belonging to an HBCU.

    Anthony, 68, and Brigette Washington, 67, made the trip from Florida on Thursday morning to attend the game despite the stormy weather. Anthony attended Florida A&M University. Meanwhile, Brigette attended Morgan University. Although neither have connections to Delaware State or Norfolk State, they wanted to show support to all HBCUs.

    Former Eagles players in now Delaware State head coach DeSean Jackson, center, and Norfolk State head coach Michael Vick, right, hug after Delaware State beat Norfolk State 27-20 at Lincoln Financial Field on Thursday.

    “[HBCU’s] are family oriented,” Anthony said. “Once you step foot and you become an HBCU alumnus, you’ll always go back. Like what we’re doing now. We’re 70 and we’re still going back to the games. We just want to support both schools.”

    Plenty of alumnus repped their colors, including 59-year-old Delaware native John Robinson. Robinson graduated from Delaware State in 1990 and is proud to see two HBCU teams getting to display their talents on such a big stage.

    “What I’m looking forward to seeing tonight is HBCU excellence and the opportunity to show that to the entire world,” Robinson said. “I’m just thrilled that we have this opportunity and this platform to show who we are, how we support our schools and how necessary they are and also to show the world the top of NFL elite talent is willing to invest in HBCUs as we see with the coaching platforms of DeSean Jackson and Michael Vick.”

    Norfolk State’s drum major dresses as Mickey Mouse during halftime of their game against Delaware State at Lincoln Financial Field on Thursday.

    ‘Approaching Storm’ stuns at halftime

    When it comes to HBCU games, there are no bathroom breaks at halftime. For many fans, halftime is the real show. HBCU’s are known for their electric marching bands and Delaware State’s ‘Approaching Storm’ did not disappoint.

    As soon as the band was introduced, fans reacted with one of the loudest cheers of the night. And as soon as silence rang through the stadium, the sounds of Boyz II Men’s “Motown Philly” echoed throughout the Linc followed by Danity Kane’s “Damaged.”

    “That’s a tradition that’s been engraved in HBCUs going back as far as you want to look,” Robinson said. “The band and the drumline, that’s the fabric. That’s how we express who we are. That’s how we tell our story through song during sporting events and it’s heritage. It’s black pride. It’s culture.”

    Delaware state representative, and Cheney graduate, Franklin Cooke Jr. added: “[Halftime shows are] very important. They’re just like athletes, you know doing all the steps, doing all the routines. It’s very, very important.”

    The impact of HBCUs

    Earlier in the week, 45-year-old West Philadelphia native Will Abbamont discussed the significance of attending an HBCU. Growing up on 46th and Fairmount, he didn’t see college as an option. Eventually, the Cheney graduate, and leader of the Sixers drumline, the Stixers, used percussion as a way to save his life.

    “For me to get accepted to Cheney, it changed my life,” Abbamont said. “[My grandma] said you can either take these drumsticks, the jail cell or a graveyard. I picked the drumsticks. Didn’t know what to do with them. I asked her what to do with them and she said you will figure it out. That right there led me on the road to my goal to go to an HBCU.”

    Norfolk State’s band plays during halftime of Thursday’s game against Delaware State at Lincoln Financial Field.

    Abbamont graduated from Cheney in 2001, where he majored in accounting and minored in computer programming. During his tenure at the school, he was part of Cheney’s drumline.

    “The drumline is the culture,” Abbamont said. “The drumline sets the tone. To be honest with you, I know our HBCUs really weren’t known for their sports. For example, I went to Cheney. My Cheney football team wasn’t really that good. But everyone came to see the band.

    “The band is the culture of the HBCU. The band is the heartbeat, the band is the lifeline, the band is what draws the attention. The sports team being good is a bonus when it comes to an HBCU…Halftime for us is when the game starts.”

  • Sean Couturier goes down, but the Flyers battle to send Nashville out and win third straight

    Sean Couturier goes down, but the Flyers battle to send Nashville out and win third straight

    Although there wasn’t much country music blaring from the sound system inside Xfinity Mobile Arena, there was some honky-tonk goodness for the home team on Thursday night.

    Despite losing captain Sean Couturier to injury after the first period, the Flyers skated away with a 4-1 win against the visiting Nashville Predators. The Orange and Black have now won three straight and six of their last eight games while improving to 6-1-0 at home.

    This win was backed by Trevor Zegras’ second two-goal performance in three nights, Matvei Michkov’s first two-point performance this season, and 32 saves by Dan Vladař.

    Couturier did not return after the first intermission due to an undisclosed injury. He took a shot from teammate Noah Juulsen with 14 minutes, 37 seconds left in the opening frame, and, while he was shown on the broadcast in pain, he played the rest of the period.

    Zegras gave the Flyers a 1-0 lead in the second period with his third goal of the season. After Michkov gained the offensive zone, he withstood pressure from Predators defenseman Nick Blankenburg to control the puck and chip it to Zegras. The New York native carried the puck to the center and sent a whipping wrister from above the circles past goalie Juuse Saros.

    He extended the Flyers’ lead to 3-1 with a one-timer on a power play in the third period. Noah Cates won the faceoff back to Cam York, who fed his former United States National Team Development Program teammate in the right circle.

    Zegras now has six points in his last three games and 10 points in seven games at Xfinity Mobile Arena.

    On Wednesday, Michkov was practicing the famous “Michigan” lacrosse-style scoop shot in Voorhees. Maybe the Predators saw that because when the Russian winger got the puck behind the net less than 3 minutes later, everyone in the building — including them — looked like they thought he was going to attempt it.

    Instead, Michkov — who did confirm postgame he was thinking it initially — faked everyone out and fed Jamie Drysdale for a quick shot from just above the goal line. The goal is the blueliner’s first of the season, to accompany his three assists.

    Vladař was once again impressive. He made 10 saves in the opening frame, including stoning Erik Haula atop the crease after he received a nifty between-the-legs pass from Jonathan Marchessault. With time winding down in the first, he stopped Ryan O’Reilly’s one-timer with a kick save during a delayed penalty.

    In the third period, with 5:28 left and the Flyers holding on to a two-goal lead, he made a big-time save on Michael Bunting from 12 feet out. The netminder allowed one goal to Matthew Wood after Owen Tippett’s clearing attempt was intercepted by Haula at the Flyers’ blue line.

    The Flyers placed goalie Sam Ersson on injured reserve due to a lower-body injury.

    Breakaways

    Emil Andrae played his second game of the season. … Aleksei Kolosov, who was recalled from Lehigh Valley of the American Hockey League on Thursday, served as the backup. Sam Ersson went on injured reserve with a lower-body injury. … Travis Konecny powered through Predators defenders along the boards to score an empty-netter during four-on-four action.

    Up next

    Call it Reunion Weekend. Scott Laughton returns with the Toronto Maple Leafs on Saturday (7 p.m., NBCSP) and Joel Farabee, Morgan Frost, and the Calgary Flames visit on Sunday (7 p.m., NBCSP+).

  • Sean Couturier exits Flyers game with an upper body injury

    Sean Couturier exits Flyers game with an upper body injury

    The Flyers may be without their captain for a bit.

    Sean Couturier did not return after the first intermission Thursday night against the Nashville Predators because of an undisclosed injury.

    With 14 minutes, 37 seconds left in the opening frame, Couturier took a sharp wrister by defenseman Noah Juulsen off the torso. He was spotted on the broadcast in pain on the bench and was seen by head athletic trainer Tommy Alva.

    However, Couturier skated another four full shifts, including two well over a minute. A key penalty killer, he was on the ice after getting hit by the puck for a 59-second shift when Jamie Drysdale was called for hooking Jonathan Marchessault.

    After the game, coach Rick Tocchet said he did not have an update but did confirm the injury came off a shot from the point. “We’ll evaluate. Can’t tell right now,” he added.

    Couturier has been off to a solid start, entering the night with two goals and nine points in the first nine games. Under new coach Rick Tocchet, he had been averaging 19:35 of ice time. It is the most since the 2021-22 season, when he played 29 games before undergoing two back surgeries and missed the entire 2022-23 season.

  • For a vegetarian borshch with oomph, bust out the tangy sauerkraut

    For a vegetarian borshch with oomph, bust out the tangy sauerkraut

    One of the most nourishing things about food is the human connection it forges. Food brings us together at the table and beyond, linking us to family history and the larger community.

    The new cookbook Russ & Daughters: 100 Years of Appetizing by Niki Russ Federman and Josh Russ Tupper, written with Joshua David Stein, reflects the deep, multilayered way food unites us and tells our story.

    The authors’ great-grandfather opened his appetizing store in New York City in 1914, and they are the fourth generation to carry on his legacy. The current location of the store, on the Lower East Side of Manhattan, is the last remaining appetizing store in an area that once had dozens like it. These shops, born of Eastern European tradition and often run by Ashkenazi Jews, specialized in ready-to-eat kosher or kosher-style specialties that could fill out a meat-free spread, such as smoked and cured fish, pickles, salads, soups, and more. (They are not to be confused with delis, as the family behind Russ & Daughters notes on its site.)

    I feel a communal bond with these foods, too — my grandfather grew up in that neighborhood, and these dishes were central to the culinary culture he passed down to us.

    The book, which is packed with both traditional recipes and the authors’ more modern takes on the classics, is also full of personal stories and rich historical accounts of the “nearly lost world of appetizing itself,” they write.

    This hot borshch recipe reflects the soup’s history and tradition, with a new-to-me twist. It delivers the key elements you’d expect from a hot red borshch — beets, cabbage, carrot, and onion simmered in an herb-rich broth, fragrant with dill and topped with a cool dollop of sour cream.

    But in this version, the sweetness of the beets is balanced with tangy sauerkraut, which adds a delightfully funky flavor and toothsome texture to the bowl. A squeeze of lemon juice brightens the vegetarian soup further, for a comforting, crimson bowl of goodness that brings plenty of vitamins, minerals, and fiber to the table, along with the essential nutrients of connection and history.

    Vegetarian borshch with sauerkraut

    Tangy sauerkraut, a squeeze of lemon, and a cool dollop of sour cream balance the sweetness of the beets in this hot vegetarian borshch. Packed with hearty root vegetables and cabbage, and flavored with fresh dill, it tastes like ultimate comfort food. The soup’s depth of flavor comes from the sauerkraut and a few hours of simmering, making it a terrific weekend project and make-ahead dish for busy weeknights.

    6 servings

    Active time: 50 minutes. Total time: 4 hours.

    Storage note: Refrigerate for up to 4 days.

    Ingredients

    2 to 3 large red beets (1 pound total), trimmed and scrubbed

    2 tablespoons olive oil

    1 medium yellow onion (8 ounces), diced

    1/4 teaspoon plus 1/8 teaspoon salt, divided, plus more as needed

    1 medium carrot, peeled and diced

    1 small white turnip (8 ounces), diced

    1/4 large head green cabbage, thinly sliced (about 4 cups)

    8 cups low-sodium vegetable broth, divided

    1 1/2 cups sauerkraut, drained (brine reserved)

    5 sprigs fresh thyme, tied with butcher’s twine

    1 tablespoon fresh lemon juice (from 1/2 lemon)

    Freshly ground black pepper

    1/3 cup coarsely chopped fresh dill

    1/2 cup sour cream

    Directions

    Position a rack in the middle of the oven and preheat to 400 degrees. Wrap each beet individually in foil and set on a small sheet pan. Roast for 1 hour 10 minutes to 1 1/2 hours, or until the beets become fork-tender. (The roasting time will depend on the size of the beets.) Let cool for 15 minutes, then remove and discard the skins and dice the beets.

    In a large (5-quart) pot over medium-high heat, heat the oil until shimmering. Add the onion and 1/8 teaspoon of the salt, and cook, stirring occasionally, until softened and starting to brown, 5 to 7 minutes. Add the carrot and turnip, and cook, stirring occasionally, until slightly softened and the turnip is starting to brown, 5 to 7 minutes more. (Reduce the heat to medium, if the vegetables are browning too quickly.) Stir in the cabbage and the remaining 1/4 teaspoon of salt, and cook, stirring frequently, until it softens 3 to 5 minutes. Add 7 cups of the broth, the sauerkraut, and thyme, and bring to a boil.

    Meanwhile, in a blender, combine 1/2 cup of the diced beets and the remaining 1 cup of broth, and puree until smooth. Add the puree to the pot and bring the borshch to a boil. Reduce the heat to the lowest setting and very gently simmer, uncovered, until the liquid has reduced a little (by about 1 cup), the vegetables are tender and the flavors meld, about 2 hours. Discard the thyme sprigs, add the remaining diced beets, and remove from the heat.

    Stir in the lemon juice, then season to taste with pepper, some of the reserved sauerkraut juice and, if desired, more salt. Ladle the borshch into bowls, garnish each with a scant 1 tablespoon of the dill and a generous 1 tablespoon of the sour cream, and serve.

    Substitutions: Yellow onion >> white onion. Instead of roasting beets >> use 1 pound precooked beets (not canned). Fresh thyme >> 1 teaspoon dried thyme.

    Nutritional information per serving (1 2/3 cups borshch, plus generous 1 tablespoon sour cream) | 177 Calories: 25g Carbohydrates, 9mg Cholesterol, 8g Fat, 8g Fiber, 4g Protein, 2g Saturated Fat, 767mg Sodium, 11g Sugar

    This analysis is an estimate based on available ingredients and this preparation. It should not substitute for a dietitian’s or nutritionist’s advice.

    Adapted from “Russ & Daughters: 100 Years of Appetizing” by Niki Russ Federman and Josh Russ Tupper with Joshua David Stein (Flatiron Books, 2025).

  • Milan Iloski’s first salary with the Union is revealed, as is Son Heung-Min’s big paycheck at LAFC

    Milan Iloski’s first salary with the Union is revealed, as is Son Heung-Min’s big paycheck at LAFC

    Milan Iloski’s opening salary with the Union is just over $550,000, according to data from the MLS Players Association released on Wednesday.

    It’s a healthy raise from the $156,000 he was earning at the start of the year with San Diego FC, until he was released from that contract by mutual agreement. The Union acquired him in early August, signing him to a deal with funds from MLS’s Targeted Allocation Money system.

    That was the big local news in the autumn edition of the labor union’s salary data. The twice-yearly release is always welcomed by fans and amateur capologists as they dig into the big earners, the bargains, and the busts.

    Topping the list of summer newcomers, both in salary and name recognition, is Los Angeles FC’s Son Heung-Min. The South Korean superstar’s paycheck is $11,152,852, second-highest in the league behind Lionel Messi’s $20,446,667.

    Messi has stood at No. 1 since his arrival at Inter Miami two years ago, and with the same number. He just signed a new contract that will keep him on the field in South Florida through 2028, including when the Herons open their new stadium next to Miami’s airport next year. We’ll find out the numbers in it next spring.

    Son Heung-Min immediately became one of MLS’s biggest stars when he joined Los Angeles FC this summer.

    The second-biggest summer arrival was Thomas Müller in Vancouver. His starting salary with the Whitecaps is $1,436,956, just below the threshold for loading up a contract in MLS’s Targeted Allocation Money system without hitting Designated Player status.

    Müller agreed to a deal that would give him less money up front in exchange for a bigger paycheck next year. The arrangement got the German legend in the door without Vancouver having to make other roster moves.

    Miami’s vice?

    Next on the marquee is another Miami newcomer, and another of Messi’s good friends, Rodrigo de Paul. His guaranteed compensation is $3,619,320, despite not being a Designated Player.

    How is that possible? Plenty of people will say it shouldn’t be. It was no secret that the Herons had to do some pretty serious gymnastics when they signed him, with all three of their DP slots already taken: Messi, Jordi Alba (an even $6 million), and Sergio Busquets ($8,774,996). All three of those numbers are way too big to buy down with Targeted Allocation Money (TAM).

    Rodrigo De Paul in action with Inter Miami earlier this month.

    Let’s start with a reminder that the MLSPA always publishes two numbers: base salary and guaranteed compensation, which includes signing and guaranteed bonuses, plus marketing bonuses and agents’ fees, annualized over the term of a player’s contract, including option years.

    Also, the numbers in these databases are also always annualized, which means they don’t necessarily reflect what a summer signing takes home down to the cent.

    De Paul’s base salary is listed as $1.5 million, the maximum you can earn with TAM without being a DP. But even with that number being prorated to something lower, a lot of skeptics will say Miami is getting away with one.

    The trick, it seems, lies in Miami signing de Paul on loan for the rest of the year before signing him for good this winter. That passes some of the salary burden back to his previous club, Spain’s Atlético Madrid.

    Inter Miami will no doubt claim innocence over how it fit Rodrigo de Paul (left) into a roster already loaded with Lionel Messi (right) and other stars.

    ESPN reported when de Paul moved that MLS rules mandate “that no promise has already been made to exercise the permanent deal following the loan spell.” The Herons supposedly claimed that was the case, but no one believed them — and that same report said a new contract is ready for de Paul to sign this winter.

    But at that point, things will be much easier, because Alba and Busquets are retiring after this season.

    Miami has been caught bending the roster rules too far once before, in 2021. (The punishments were part of how Julián Carranza ended up with the Union.) But Messi and his friends weren’t in town yet back then. Now that they are, it seems the club might get away with this one.

    Other names to know

    The rest of the big summer signings leaguewide include two notable Americans: Medford native Paxten Aaronson and longtime U.S. national team goalkeeper Matt Turner.

    Paxten Aaronson (right) in action with the Colorado Rapids earlier this month.

    Aaronson is earning $2,228,063 in his first year with the Colorado Rapids, which paid a nearly $8 million transfer fee to bring him back to the U.S. from Germany’s Eintracht Frankfurt.

    Turner is earning $1,942,886 with the New England Revolution, which signed him on a year-and-a-half loan from France’s Lyon so he can have regular playing time before nex tyear’s World Cup.

    Among international arrivals, New York City FC’s Nicolás Fernández is earning $3,650,000, and he paid some of that back by helping the Pigeons win at Charlotte in Game 1 of their playoff series on Tuesday.

    Portland’s Kristoffer Velde is earning $3,027,000, and he scored his first Timbers goal in Sunday’s Game 1 at San Diego. Alas, it was too late to salvage a 2-1 loss.

    Matt Turner came back to New England this summer to try to regain the U.S. men’s national team’s starting goalkeeper job.

    Columbus’ Wessam Abou Ali is earning $2,157,375, but unfortunately he suffered a fracture in his right ankle in late September and is out six weeks. That might not be enough time to save the Crew’s first-round series against arch-rival Cincinnati, which won Game 1 at home on Monday.

    Game 2 is Sunday in Columbus, and Game 3 would be Nov. 8 in Cincinnati.

    Speaking of Cincinnati, they’ve got a case study on how to bring back a former star on a midseason deal. Brenner was a Designated Player striker from 2021-23, with a salary of over $2.2 million. He was sold to Italy’s Udinese, then reacquired this summer on a loan for the rest of this year with a purchase option.

    His salary for now is just $280,120.

    Brenner (left) in action during Monday’s Game 1 of the Cincinnati-Columbus playoff series.

    The Union’s payroll

    Each player’s salary figure officially includes two numbers: the base salary and guaranteed compensation. The latter number includes signing and guaranteed bonuses, plus marketing bonuses and agents’ fees, annualized over the term of a player’s contract, including option years.

    For conversational and reporting purposes, the guaranteed compensation number is the one usually used here and around the league.

    Along with the team’s summer signings (Iloski and third-string goalkeeper George Marks) and departures (prospects Nelson Pierre and David Vazquez), you’ll notice that another name is missing.

    Centerback Ian Glavinovich agreed to a mutual contract termination a few weeks after being given season-ending injury status for his rehab from a torn meniscus.

    The only Union player who got a raise this summer is Jakob Glesnes. He signed a new contract in August, and his pay for the year went up by $71,875, where he’s pulling in $1.31 million this season.

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    The annotations in parentheses mean the following:

    (1) — Senior roster player; (2) — Supplemental roster player; (3) — Supplemental roster spot 31, loaned to the Union’s reserve team for the entire year; (4) — Off-roster supplemental player

    (5) — Designated Player; (6) — Young Designated Player (age 23 or below); (7) — Cap hit bought down with Targeted Allocation Money; (8) — International status; (9) — Homegrown Player status

    (10) — Under-22 Player status (via age) to reduce salary cap charge; (11) — Also has a “professional development role” with the team for work beyond the field; (12) — Currently loaned out

    The big numbers leaguewide

    Across the landscape, MLS teams are paying a total of $597,372,429 to 944 players.

    The average salary is $632,809.78, down a little bit from the spring, the first time that number has exceeded $600,000. The median salary of $300,000 has not changed. The lowest salary in the league, which is set by the CBA, is $80,622. It’s also the most common salary leaguewide, as it often is, with 78 players earning that sum.

    Atlanta has the most players on the minimum with eight, followed by Dallas with seven. Colorado has five, followed by Nashville, San Diego, St. Louis, and Seattle with four. The Union have none.

    Thomas Müller structured his contract with the Vancouver Whitecaps so that the team could stay within MLS roster rules this year.

    Team payroll comparison

    This section is often unpleasant reading for Union fans, and it is again this time. The team’s payroll of $13,365,549 is the third-lowest of MLS’s 30 teams right now, ahead of only Dallas and Montréal.

    Salary data do not include transfer fees, which occupy a significant portion of MLS team budgets and, these days, are often bigger than salaries. But the payroll comparison is still a snapshot of how teams handle the salary part of the equation. To learn more about teams’ histories with player sales and purchases, check out the data at Transfermarkt.us.

    It’s also important to note that players loaned out internationally are usually still counted on the MLSPA’s books. That can have a significant impact on the payroll rankings. For uniformity’s sake, all players listed in the MLSPA’s records are included in the calculations here, whether they’re big names or not.

    The most attention here usually goes to the top of the table, but this time the big headline is near the bottom. Toronto finally freed itself of big-money busts Lorenzo Insigne and Federico Bernardeschi, cutting the payroll from over $34 million in the spring — the second-highest total leaguewide — to $13.6 million now.

    That’s fourth from last, and just over $200,000 above where the Union have been all along. The Reds will no doubt reload this winter, but it’s quite a sight for now.

    Click here to see the team payroll comparison from the previous data set this past spring.

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    The millionaires club

    The number of millionaires leaguewide is up to 138, another record, from 131 in the spring and 126 at the end of last season.

    As with the payroll rankings above, the table below may include some players who are loaned to clubs outside the league, but technically still on MLS teams’ books.

    The positions listed here come from the MLSPA’s database. They might not all be perfect matches, but they’re close enough.

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    Historical charts

    Here are the latest versions of other charts that are recurring features in this analysis, showing changes in key MLS salary metrics over time.

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  • How the Sixers’ disastrous 2024-25 season fueled Nick Nurse: ‘You brush the dust off and get back to work’

    How the Sixers’ disastrous 2024-25 season fueled Nick Nurse: ‘You brush the dust off and get back to work’

    Nick Nurse’s summer mood has long been dictated by how the just-completed season unfolded. So naturally, the 76ers’ coach spent much of this past offseason in a state of, in his words, “[ticked]-off-edness.”

    The Sixers’ woeful, injury-plagued 24-58 season sent Nurse and his team home much sooner than they ever would have anticipated months earlier, when they had championship aspirations. The irritation lingered.

    And lingered.

    “It kind of fatigues you mentally and you’re just kind of constantly thinking about it,” the 58-year-old Nurse recently told The Inquirer. “And then, at some point, you’re like, ‘OK, tomorrow I’m getting up at 5:30, and we’re going to start going to work. We’ve got to make a move here.’

    “And then that’s kind of what the rest of the summer becomes.”

    That methodical approach has yielded a surprising 4-0 start to the Sixers’ 2025-26 season, even with Paul George and Jared McCain sidelined with injuries and Joel Embiid limited while working his way back from an ongoing knee issue. They rallied from a 19-point deficit to top the Washington Wizards in overtime Tuesday night, already their third double-digit comeback victory of the season.

    Last season, it took the Sixers until Nov. 30 to record their fourth win. And though it is far too early to make sweeping declarations of a guaranteed turnaround, the Sixers have flashed an on-court identity — and palpable juice — that make good on Nurse’s public vow that “I want you to walk away from the game saying, ‘Jesus, they played their [butts] off tonight.’ That’s it.”

    “You could feel his frustration, feel his pain,” said Minnesota Timberwolves coach Chris Finch, one of Nurse’s close friends. “And, generally, when we’ve all been through a season or a situation like that, there’s an incredible focus on where we need to start going into it the following year. …

    “You [could] sense the confidence in their ability to do that when I talked to him this summer.”

    Sixers coach Nick Nurse determined that his team needed to play faster this year.

    For Nurse, that summer evaluation always begins with a self-debrief, which he acknowledges is not unlike how his brain operates daily. He is constantly thinking about the puzzle of fusing his coaching philosophy — “what you think is the absolute best way of doing anything, regardless” — with roster strengths and weaknesses.

    Tactically, Nurse concluded that the Sixers must play a faster-paced, free-flowing offense that could succeed even when Embiid — the perennial All-Star and 2022-23 MVP who has been the franchise’s centerpiece for much of the past decade — inevitably missed time. That emphasis was first raised to dynamic point guard Tyrese Maxey (who totaled another 39 points and 10 assists Tuesday in Washington) during his exit interview with Nurse, president of basketball operations Daryl Morey, and general manager Elton Brand. It became even more imperative when the Sixers drafted VJ Edgecombe, a hyper-athletic guard.

    But pace does not only mean how quickly the ball travels up and down the floor. Nurse said he, simply, “just wanted more passing. I just wanted the ball to touch more hands.”

    The coaching staff began to implement those concepts — and individual skill development plans aligned with them — with younger players during summer league and workouts in Los Angeles, where assistant Rico Hines stages renowned pickup games. When everybody reconvened in Philly after Labor Day for informal team sessions, Nurse harped on the strength and conditioning required to attack the basket and play relentlessly on both ends of the floor. They scrimmaged without calling fouls, a style veteran center Andre Drummond called “prison ball.”

    “All those things that kind of enable you to play with some toughness [and] physicality,” Nurse said, “push through when you think you’re tired, that you’re not.”

    Returning players such as Adem Bona and Quentin Grimes described Nurse as more “direct” and “intense” while teaching schemes and principles during training camp practices. Kelly Oubre Jr. added that “Nurse has been putting us through the wringer.”

    Yet newcomer Dominick Barlow said Nurse’s style and personality falls between his previous two NBA coaches, San Antonio Spurs legend Gregg Popovich and the Atlanta Hawks’ Quin Snyder. Jabari Walker, who also is in his first season in Philly, said he recently swung by Nurse’s office to thank him for giving him the confidence to shoot three-pointers.

    “He stopped practice a couple times, saying, ‘That’s the one I want you to shoot,’” Walker said. “I think that’s just so helpful for players, because we overthink the game and we’re playing with such great guys [that] we don’t know when we should shoot sometimes.

    “Having a coach that really believes in you allows you to just take that step back and trust your work. [You] even want to play harder for a leader like that, just because he instills so much in you.”

    Sixers head coach Nick Nurse showed early confidence in rookie VJ Edgecombe and it appears to be paying off.

    Nurse also can tap back into past experiences on his wide-ranging coaching journey of when a team responded to a disappointing season with a significant bounce-back.

    After five years coaching in the British Basketball League, Nurse went 22-28 his first season with the D-League’s Iowa Energy, from 2007-08, while adjusting to a “totally different” playing style and roster “merry-go-round [that] was unlike anything I’ve ever seen.” He flipped that record to 28-22 the following season, won the 2011 league championship, and then was hired to coach the Rio Grande Valley Vipers, the D-League affiliate of the Houston Rockets, then run by Morey. Nurse went 24-26 that first season, before winning the title the next year.

    Nurse, though, has been candid about what faces the Sixers this season. They must “earn their way back” into the playoffs, he said on media day. “We’re digging ourselves out of a pretty big hole,” he reiterated following recent practices. When asked before Saturday’s home opener against Charlotte how much pressure he felt entering this season, Nurse said, “Not more than any other time.”

    “I’m going into every game trying to win,” Nurse said, “and that’s been going on for 35 years. … That’s really all I think about.”

    Even before this impressive start, Nurse could pull optimism from a practice day just before the season opener. When he walked into the Sixers’ facility at 7:30 a.m., the coach said, two players already were watching film in the chairs that line the practice courts. Another was moving through an individual workout.

    “It’s not easy to get all that stuff: the work ethic, the togetherness,” Nurse said. “I keep saying I’m happy with it. Am I surprised? A little bit, because it’s not that easy.”

    Perhaps those Sixers were mirroring their coach and the way his offseason mood propelled him into 2025-26.

    “You go through these [times] as a coach, for sure,” he said. “And you just do all those things I said. You debrief. You regroup. You brush the dust off and get back to work.

    “And you let that [ticked]-off-edness fuel you a little bit.”

  • Erica Deuso’s campaign to be Pa.’s first trans mayor isn’t about that. It’s ‘about the neighbors.’

    Erica Deuso’s campaign to be Pa.’s first trans mayor isn’t about that. It’s ‘about the neighbors.’

    By most measures, Erica Deuso’s campaign for mayor of Downingtown is unremarkable.

    She spends Saturday mornings greeting residents at the farmers market and her weekend days knocking on doors in the Chester County borough. Most of the time, she’s talking about traffic and community events.

    Nevertheless, the effort is groundbreaking.

    If she is elected in the Democratic-leaning borough, Deuso would be the first openly transgender person elected mayor in Pennsylvania. She would do so as President Donald Trump’s administration pursues policies that limit public life for transgender residents and as Democrats’ vocal support for the community wanes in the aftermath of the 2024 election.

    Democratic supporters pose with current Downingtown Mayor Phil Dague, center, Chester County Commissioner Josh Maxwell, center left, and mayoral candidate Erica Deuso, center right.

    For most voters, though, those facts didn’t even register.

    Deuso, who works in management at a pharmaceutical company, has lived in Downingtown for 18 years.

    She is a committeewoman in the local Democratic Party, and board member for Emerge Pennsylvania, which trains women and LGBTQ+ people to run for office. Her platform centers on traffic control, domestic violence, community engagement, and sustainable development.

    The Downingtown mayor has relatively limited power, overseeing the police department and acting as a tiebreaking vote on borough council. Deuso has promised not to sign an agreement between Downingtown police and U.S. Immigration and Customs Enforcement and said she wants to work on enhancing mental health services for officers while expanding their reach in the community to address concerns over traffic violations and e-bikes.

    As she knocked on doors on a Saturday morning in October, Deuso’s gender identity rarely came up in her interactions with voters.

    “I’m not running on being trans, that’s not something I ever do or ever wanted to do. I wanted to make it about the neighbors,” Deuso said. “It’s the other side making it about who I am, my identity.”

    Going door-to-door looking for votes in Downingtown in October, Erica Deuso meets Nicole Flood at her door.

    The historic nature of her campaign has likely driven attention and funds to the race. She has earned endorsements from several organizations that back LGBTQ+ and women candidates. And she’s received donations from outside the state and outside Chester County, including a $3,000 donation from Greater Than PAC, which supports progressive women.

    But a scan of comments in community Facebook pages shows her identity has also driven more vitriol.

    “There are people who refuse to use my correct name or pronouns, they’ve deadnamed me, all those sorts of things. But it’s been 16 years since I transitioned; I don’t really care,” Deuso said. But she’s mindful that LGBTQ+ youth are watching her. She engages in some of the posts, but not all of them.

    “I want to handle it with grace.”

    Those efforts are already influencing at least one local teen. Nicole Bastida-Moyer, a 39-year-old voter, told Deuso her candidacy had inspired her 14-year-old daughter to volunteer to help other students with their mental health. Both she and her daughter are pansexual.

    “She deals with a lot of hate,” Bastida-Moyer said through tears about her daughter.

    “Having Erica’s voice, it means a lot,” Bastida-Moyer said.

    Nicole Bastida-Moyer gets a hug from Downingtown mayoral candidate Erica Deuso while campaigning in October.

    Impact on voters

    Deuso responds to comments on her Facebook page and other groups occasionally. She said she tends to do so only when she thinks a true conversation can come of it.

    Door-knocking in her neighborhood, Deuso encountered just one voter who appeared to be hostile to her because of her gender identity. When Deuso approached one house, a woman came to the door and glanced at the candidate and her fliers through the screen door without opening it.

    “I’m not voting for him,” the woman said. “For who?” Deuso asked as the woman turned and walked away.

    Episodes like this are relatively rare, Deuso said

    “People are generally much nicer in person than online,” said Jenn Fenn, who managed U.S. Rep. Chrissy Houlahan’s 2024 reelection campaign in a district that includes Downingtown.

    Deuso’s opponent, Republican Rich Bryant, says he doesn’t condone those who attack Deuso based on her identity.

    But Deuso has shared several screenshots on social media that appear to show Bryant insulting transgender women and making misogynistic remarks about cisgender women. At a canvass launch at the local farmers market, the township’s current mayor, Democrat Phil Dague, referenced these posts while comparing Bryant to Trump.

    Current Downingtown Mayor Phil Dague talks with supporters for Erica Deuso listening at right. Saturday October 18, 2025.

    Bryant claimed 90% of these posts are AI-generated but refused to say which posts are real and which are fake.

    “I don’t like mud-slinging misinformation,” Bryant said. “I try to stay focused on what’s good for Downingtown.”

    Rich Bryant is running as a Republican for Downingtown mayor.

    He sought to present himself as better experienced than Deuso to be mayor, contending his career in cybersecurity has prepared him for the mayor’s primary duty of overseeing the local police department.

    Alice Sullivan, an 80-year-old neighbor and donor to Deuso, had noticed some of the nastiness on social media and said she was voting for Deuso because, unlike her opponent, she wasn’t a “bigot.”

    She lamented the online attacks against Deuso as disappointing — but unsurprising. The candidate’s gender identity shouldn’t matter, insisted Sullivan, who has lived in Downingtown for decades.

    “Other people’s lives, genders, whatever is not my business,” she said.

    Josh Maxwell, a Democratic county commissioner and former Downingtown mayor who had joined Deuso to knock doors, asked if Sullivan thought others would disagree in the historically Catholic community. But the people who cared, Sullivan argued, are “not going to vote Democrat anyway.”

    “There might be some,” she said. “I don’t know very many.”

    Campaigning in the west end of Downingtown Erica Deuso greets Alice Sullivan on Oct. 18.

    As Deuso walked door to door, her conversations focused on local and community issues. She greeted every dog she saw and spoke to their owners about their safety concerns — drivers had been racing down quiet neighborhood streets — and their concerns about the community. Deuso is proposing a program to offer hotel rooms for one night to those facing domestic violence.

    She also made it clear that she would be a resource, even on issues that went beyond the mayor’s official duties. She showed one voter how she had started a youth-driven art project at a recent township festival. And pointed to a home that, just weeks prior, she’d brought a misdelivered package to on behalf of a voter.

    For weeks, Raul Hurtado, Deuso’s neighbor who immigrated from Colombia in the 1990s, has been rolling down his windows when he sees Deuso, telling her he’s voting for her.

    “She is from this town, my neighbor, and we need someone to help us,” Hurtado told The Inquirer.

    If she’s elected, Deuso told Hurtado, her goal is to be available to all residents through office hours at Borough Hall.

    “We can have a face-to-face discussion,” she said. “Not through your car window.”

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  • Dear Abby | Sister opts to torch the memories of late parents

    DEAR ABBY: My sister has always been a liar and a manipulator. She has lost jobs because of her toxic behavior. Our parents passed away 20 years ago, and ever since, she has trashed their memory to anyone who will listen. She claims she was unwanted because she was female, that my parents refused to name her and wouldn’t take her home from the hospital until police were called. None of that is in any way true.

    Now, she’s claiming our mother slept with multiple men and my biological father could be nearly anyone. I have a DNA test that proves that my father was the man who was married to my mother for more than 50 years. She dismisses this proof as a “lab mistake” and maintains her tale about my parentage.

    How do I respond to this? Do I contact members of our large extended family and tell them what she is doing? I suspect that what she wants is a reaction from me, which she will then weaponize against me as she often does. How do I handle such a liar, who has no concern for the impact of her allegations?

    — FRUSTRATED BROTHER IN TENNESSEE

    DEAR BROTHER: Your sister appears to be mentally unbalanced and unwilling to accept you as her full brother. She may also be trying to upset you. If you think she has been spreading these rumors among your relatives, by all means reach out and tell them you have proof that what she has been saying is untrue. One can only imagine what else she has been lying about.

    ** ** **

    DEAR ABBY: A close relative has been diagnosed with incurable cancer. Friends are now sending me articles and clippings about cancer research and the promise of new therapies. If they had actually READ these articles, they would see that clinical trials on humans are far off, or that the type of cancer referred to in the article is different from what my relative has. Why offer hope when there is none? The same thing happened to me when I had cancer 20 years ago. In one instance, I received an article about how to prevent the cancer I already had!

    Please remind your readers that although these items are most often sent with love, they do little to help the individual experiencing the illness and treatment and can cause anger and pain. Doctors, especially oncologists, provide their patients with the best treatments available. It’s best to let them handle it. Thank you.

    — SAD RELATIVE IN CALIFORNIA

    DEAR RELATIVE: Many people, upon hearing that someone they care about has a terminal illness, feel sad and helpless. Out of a need to do SOMETHING, they will send articles, some of which are inappropriate. While I agree that the most reliable source of information about cancer is your relative’s oncologist, and that readers need to be aware of the message they are trying to send, please understand they are being sent out of a desire to help.