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  • 5 common mistakes grandparents make, according to a pediatrician

    5 common mistakes grandparents make, according to a pediatrician

    Why is there so often tension between grandparents and parents when it comes to the grandchildren?

    Watching your child turn into a parent — and care for your grandchild — is one of the great joys that life has to offer. And yet, grandparents often give unsolicited opinions on the decisions that parents are making, from bedtime to mealtime to general attitudes about discipline — or pretty much anything else. As a grandparent who’s also a pediatrician of more than 30 years, I understand why it’s tempting to play the parental-experience card (not to mention the medical training card), but the better part of valor is to wait and give advice only when — and if — you’re asked for it.

    We’ve had our innings. We got to make each and every one of those decisions when we were bringing up our own children, and, child-rearing being what it is, we made them over and over, day after day, all those bedtimes, all those mealtimes, all those opportunities to teach, to set limits, to celebrate, to discipline.

    We reared responsible adults, able to take on the complex tasks of parenting, ready to make good choices. So this is our moment to stand back and respect those choices, weigh in when we’re asked to, and recognize that there are many different ways to navigate the complex waters of parenthood.

    Here are a few common mistakes grandparents make and my advice on how to become a respectful and helpful grandparent.

    Failing to accept that parenting patterns change with time

    There are real changes that happen over time in parenting styles. My own parents decided that they would never spank their children, which was a deliberate break from their own upbringings in the 1930s. Their parents would have seen that as moving in a permissive direction. On the other hand, they also would have thought that my parents were too preoccupied with knowing where the children were at any given moment. Still, I was allowed to walk without an adult to second grade in New York City, keeping an eye on my younger brother, which I wouldn’t have allowed my own children to do.

    I couldn’t resist asking my own son, Benjamin Klass, a child and adolescent psychiatrist, who is also the father of my almost 3-year-old grandson, about his perspective. (And you can just imagine the complex dynamics of the pediatrician mother trying to decide how to give advice — or not — to the child psychiatrist son!)

    He told me that even though grandparents worry all the time about how their grandchildren are doing, it can seem to parents like they don’t worry enough or realize how much parents may agonize over small issues of diet or behavior. “It’s understandable why there is a push and a pull all the time,” he said.

    Thus, some grandparents want to be more casual about food treats, screen time, or even supervision, which creates conflict with parents who take them all much more seriously.

    Remember that you are indeed in a different role now and may see things very differently than you did when you were the parent, with all the responsibility resting on you.

    Blaming your child’s partner

    You don’t want to be in conflict with your child over your grandchild. You don’t want to be in conflict with your child over your child’s partner. As much as possible, respect that parental unit, assume that your child is an integral part of the decision-making process, and remind yourself that if you love being a grandparent, you owe a good deal to the partner who made it possible. And if you do find yourself making a suggestion, treat it as a suggestion that you are in fact making to that parental unit — don’t go behind the other parent’s back.

    Assuming it’s the parents’ fault when a grandchild is struggling

    Remember how bad it feels to have a child who isn’t happy or isn’t doing well or is in some other way going through a bad patch? This is not the time to say “I told you so” or to point out that things in the home have been too disorganized or too strictly organized. Given the complexities of parenting, it’s rare to be able to attribute a child’s distress to any one factor, and it’s common for parents to beat themselves up over everything, including things they don’t control. If there’s a grandchild with a problem, be part of that child’s support system and part of the parents’ support system; ask them how you can help and listen when they want to talk.

    Making it a fight instead of a discussion

    You probably saw this coming, but I’m going to give you permission to advocate for regular pediatric care, immunizations and, within reason, to discuss other specific health-related issues. With immunizations, after all, since you’re among the older adults who will be caring for this child, you have a vested interest in knowing that said child is immunized against measles, RSV, influenza, coronavirus, etc.

    You don’t want to see your grandchild sick with measles (the most infectious virus in the world) for lots of reasons. But I also tell you, as a pediatrician, these can be very hard conversations — in the home as well as in the pediatric exam room — and you have to try to stay respectful, be clear that you’re speaking out of love and concern, make your case, leave the question open if necessary, and return to it — and don’t let it dominate the relationship.

    And you should certainly set a good example by making it clear that you’re getting all the recommended vaccines yourself.

    Weighing in too often, especially when you weren’t asked to

    You already know that picking your battles is a big part of parenting. Every parent of a toddler learns this, and every parent of an adolescent really learns it. There may turn out to be issues along the way, but choose those topics carefully — and pick your words with even more care.

    The goal of this entire enterprise is to help your precious grandchild grow into a responsible adult who can make good choices. You did this once, with your own child, so you know it can be done — and the more you recognize and respect those choices as your child makes them, the more you will be honoring your new role and helping everyone involved understand what goes into making a family.

    Perri Klass is a pediatrician and professor of journalism and pediatrics at New York University, and author of “The Best Medicine: How Science and Public Health Gave Children a Future.”

  • Read the Art Museum’s accusations against Sasha Suda in its new petition

    Read the Art Museum’s accusations against Sasha Suda in its new petition

    The Philadelphia Art Museum’s trustees responded to the lawsuit filed by recently-ousted director and CEO Sasha Suda, saying she was dismissed after an investigation determined that she “misappropriated funds from the museum and lied to cover up her theft.”

    On Thursday, the museum filed a petition in the Philadelphia Court of Common Pleas that says Suda repeatedly asked for raises, and when she was denied them by the museum board’s compensation committee, she took matters into her own hands.

    “Given Suda’s misconduct, no responsible board member could have done anything other than vote to remove Suda for cause,” says the petition, which asks the court to compel arbitration of the dispute. Suda had requested a trial by jury.

    “The museum’s accusations are false,” Suda’s lawyer, Luke Nikas of Quinn Emanuel Urquhart & Sullivan said Friday.

    “If the museum had nothing to hide, it would not be afraid to litigate in state court where we filed the case.”

    In her original complaint, Suda claims she was “terminated when her efforts to modernize the museum clashed with a small, corrupt, and unethical faction of the board intent on preserving the status quo. The museum, in their petition said her complaint was “laden with false, dishonest, and irrelevant allegations.”

    Read the full petition here:

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    Additional reporting by Abraham Gutman.

  • ‘The White Lotus’ sparked online interest in risky anxiety pills, study says

    ‘The White Lotus’ sparked online interest in risky anxiety pills, study says

    The latest season of “The White Lotus” delivered big ratings for HBO — and fueled a surge of Google searches for a risky antianxiety prescription drug featured on the show, according to research published this month.

    The paper, published in JAMA Health Forum, highlights Hollywood’s outsize cultural influence and the common use of benzodiazepines, a class of anxiety-relieving medications that can cause physical dependence and agonizing withdrawal symptoms.

    The third season of the show, which depicts well-heeled guests at a luxury resort in Thailand, includes a storyline of a mother hooked on lorazepam pills and her husband who starts to steal and take them as he faces financial ruin and criminal charges.

    Researchers from the University of California at San Diego found that Google searches for lorazepam and two benzodiazepines with different names remained stable for years before the release of the show’s third season in February. Searches for lorazepam skyrocketed for the next 12 weeks, nearly 99% higher than expected — representing 1.6 million additional searches. During that time, searches for similar drugs, alprazolam and clonazepam, remained at expected levels, the study showed.

    Many of the queries asked how to get lorazepam, although that doesn’t mean viewers bought them, said Kevin Yang, the study’s lead author and a psychiatrist specializing in addiction at the UC-San Diego School of Medicine. “But it’s at least a good indicator of public interest in that medication,” he said.

    Yang got the idea for the study on his couch while watching “The White Lotus” with his now-wife. “It almost felt as if it was being glorified,” Yang said.

    A long history

    Benzodiazepines — which include drugs such as Xanax and Valium — are commonly prescribed for anxiety, bouts of panic, and insomnia.

    The sedative drugs are highly effective but should not be used longer than two to four weeks because of the risk of dependence, said Alexis Ritvo, assistant professor of psychiatry at the University of Colorado School of Medicine and a member of the nonprofit Alliance for Benzodiazepine Best Practices.

    “Very rarely are people adequately educated about that before they’re given a prescription for these meds,” Ritvo said.

    The medical community has long known about the dangers of prolonged use of benzodiazepines, or benzos, as they are often called.

    In 2020, the Food and Drug Administration issued stronger warnings for benzodiazepines, detailing the risk of abuse, addiction, and withdrawal symptoms. The updated boxed warning came amid rising concerns about benzodiazepine abuse, with the agency estimating half of prescriptions were for longer than two months.

    Stopping the drugs abruptly after prolonged use can worsen anxiety and insomnia, leading some patients to start again on higher doses. Withdrawals can last months or even years. Nicole Lamberson, a physician assistant who began taking prescription Xanax for anxiety in her early 20s, spent eight years battling withdrawal symptoms. During that time, she became gaunt and bedridden, afflicted by bedsores.

    “I was crippled with panic, anxiety, terror, racing thoughts, suicidality. I was fully dissociated,” said Lamberson, medical director of the Benzodiazepine Information Coalition, a nonprofit aimed at raising awareness about the dangers of the medications.

    Patients have access to other pharmaceutical anxiety medication, including SSRIs and buspirone. Earlier this year, the American Society of Addiction Medicine published new guidelines for reducing doses for patients who have been regularly taking benzodiazepines.

    Long-term benzodiazepine use poses other risks such as memory loss, difficulty concentrating, and brain fog — particularly dangerous for elderly patients susceptible to falls.

    Benzodiazepines can also amplify the effects of other prescription drugs or alcohol. “If you have an opioid problem or alcohol problem, adding benzos to the equation is like pouring gasoline onto a fire,” said Wayne Kepner, a Stanford University addiction researcher involved in the “White Lotus” study.

    (Victoria, the mother taking lorazepam in “The White Lotus,” slurs at dinner while drinking wine.)

    Researchers have also noted cases of “designer” benzos — which are not approved for medical use but can be purchased online — creeping into the illicit drug supply, an added wrinkle to the nation’s drug crisis. Sometimes known as “benzo dope,” the mix of opioids such as fentanyl and benzodiazepines slows breathing and heart rate and lowers blood pressure, increasing the possibility of an overdose.

    Cultural imprint

    Benzodiazepines have long made appearances in popular culture, reflecting their common use as a prescription and recreational drug.

    Books, TV shows, and movies have depicted or hinted at housewives grappling with suburban malaise by taking Valium. The hard-partying stockbroker in “The Wolf of Wall Street” mentions taking Xanax to “take the edge off.” Hip-hop artists rap about them, and not always to glorify — Future’s “XanaX Damage” is about the drug’s harms.

    “We have a culture of, ‘You work hard, keep going, you shouldn’t feel pain, you shouldn’t feel distress,’” said Ritvo, the addiction psychiatrist. “If you feel anxious, if you feel overwhelmed, then you should do something to take that feeling away.”

    An HBO spokesperson did not return a request for comment.

    The visibility of benzodiazepines on “The White Lotus” could serve as a learning moment, the study researchers said.

    In the paper, they noted the surge in Google searches showed “a level of engagement that few public health interventions achieve in such a short time frame.”

    Yang and Kepner, in an interview, suggested that such shows could include disclaimers on benzodiazepine misuse or steer viewers to help lines or websites, as is often done when media touches on suicide, child abuse, or gambling. “There needs to be some discussion on guardrails,” Kepner said.

    On “The White Lotus” (spoilers ahead), Victoria Ratliff appears to be spared excruciating withdrawal as her husband, Timothy, raids her lorazepam supply and descends into a detached, drugged haze. He considers killing himself and his family but eventually runs out of the drug and finds peace.

  • 🦃 Does buying a pie still count? | Morning Newsletter

    🦃 Does buying a pie still count? | Morning Newsletter

    Good morning, and happy (almost) Thanksgiving week. The most trusted name in Philadelphia weather, my colleague Tony Wood, ruled out snow showers for the holiday week. He did note, however, that a taste of winter is coming.

    Today, we’re reflecting on a seemingly common issue: As gobble-gobble time quickly approaches, many dinner guests start feeling pangs of anxiety about what they volunteered to bring to their sprawling feast, what’s reality, and whether or not to pass off a store-bought item as homemade.

    But first, we’ve got: news on the Philadelphia Art Museum naming a new director (and suing its old one), an update on the final defendant to face sentencing in a sprawling Amtrak corruption case, and info on the first Pennsylvania town to ban gas-powered leaf blowers.

    Scroll along for these stories and more.

    — Tommy Rowan (morningnewsletter@inquirer.com)

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    What you should know today

    • The Philadelphia Art Museum surprisingly named a new CEO and director weeks after firing its last one. And now the museum is suing the last one, Sasha Suda, for an alleged theft.
    • The final defendant in a sweeping corruption probe that uncovered a series of bribes being lavished upon an Amtrak manager during a renovation project at 30th Street Station was sentenced Friday to two months in prison.
    • Philadelphia can now write a law to offer developers a 20-year pass on property taxes if they convert large, underutilized properties into residences.
    • Homeless shelters in Delaware County are preparing to reopen after the state budget impasse forced service reductions.
    • Two new studies on New Jersey’s rising sea levels predict potentially serious environmental outcomes in the Garden State, from the flooding of numerous toxic sites to significant erosion.
    • Lower Merion on Wednesday became the first in Pennsylvania to ban gas-powered leaf blowers.
    • The Flyers once inducted fans into a secret club if they got hit by a puck during a game. Being a member of “The Loyal Order of the Unducked Puck” meant so much to its members that some mention it in their obituaries.
    • Temple University’s marching band is one of only 11 that have been selected to participate in the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade in New York City. It’s a first for Temple.

    This week’s obsession

    Bringing store-bought stuff to Thanksgiving

    Every Saturday, we’ll talk about something happening around Philly, or to Philadelphians, that’s stuck in our minds. Today, it’s what to bring for Thanksgiving.

    This year, I’m on pie duty. The only problem? I have never baked a pie in my entire life. Why did I volunteer for this? Your guess is as good as mine. The silver lining in all this is I’ve learned that pie crusts can be purchased separately, and some fillings come right out of a can. This is proof that sometimes America can get it right.

    In this vein, three of my stellar colleagues — editors Sam Ruland, Margaret Eby, and Evan Weiss — debated in this week’s advice chat about whether or not it’s rude to bring a store-bought Thanksgiving dish when everyone else (seemingly) cooked their dishes from scratch.

    And we’re all in agreement: Of course not. As only Ruland can say it: “I think it comes down to how much you like these people.”

    You’ll want to read to the end.

    And as a bonus, if of course you’ve decided to go the passing-it-off-as-your-own route, our colleagues in the food department compiled a handy list of the best places to buy pie in the region.

    One viewpoint

    Sports gambling PA
    Sports gambling

    Senior editorial writer Paul Davies wrote that he wasn’t shocked by the latest investigation into sports gambling, “since the heedless race into legalized sports gambling is ruining the games — and some lives — all in the name of money.”

    Davies says this was not the first investigation, and it won’t be the last.

    Read his dissection of the state of sports gambling, and why he feels that betting on sports has become so pervasive that the integrity of the games can no longer be trusted.

    🧠 Trivia time

    This comedian with Philly ties mocked President Donald Trump on a recent podcast episode for hurling a “piggy” insult at a former Philadelphia Daily News reporter.

    Who was the comedian?

    A) Kevin Hart

    B) Shane Gillis

    C) Tina Fey

    D) Will Smith

    Think you know? Check your answer.

    🧩 Unscramble the anagram

    Hint: Sloomoo Institute, an immersive slime playground, is a new addition to this mall’s store lineup this holiday season.

    AFR GUSSI PINKO

    Email us if you know the answer. We’ll select a reader at random to shout out here.

    Cheers to Kathy Paulmier who correctly guessed Friday’s answer: Plymouth Meeting.

    We were there

    The old waiting room at 30th Street Station.

    The old waiting room at 30th Street Station, the one that most people only pass through on their way to the restrooms, has been spiffed up with benches — and a Christmas tree, writes staff photographer Tom Gralish.

    “The tree was added this year in front of the 30-foot frieze, The Spirit of Transportation, while the lobby of Amtrak’s $550 million station restoration is underway,” he added. “The 1895 relief sculpture by Karl Bitter was originally hung in the Broad Street Station by City Hall, but was moved in 1933. It depicts travel from ancient to modern and even futuristic times.”

    More of Gralish’s visual exploration of our region can be seen in his blog at Inquirer.com/sceneontheroad.

    Somewhere on the internet in Philly

    If you see chickens huddling together during a rainstorm, do not be alarmed. They’re just like us. (P.S. It’s turkey week, my friends, so let’s give those cluckers a break.)

    👋 My colleague Erin Reynolds will take over newsletter duties tomorrow. If I don’t see ya, have a happy Thanksgiving.

    By submitting your written, visual, and/or audio contributions, you agree to The Inquirer’s Terms of Use, including the grant of rights in Section 10.

  • Bernie Parent last took the ice 46 years ago. For fans, he’s forever an inspiration.

    Bernie Parent last took the ice 46 years ago. For fans, he’s forever an inspiration.

    More than a thousand Flyers fans came to Xfinity Mobile Arena on Friday to pay tribute to Bernie Parent, the legendary goaltender who backstopped the Flyers’ only two Stanley Cup victories.

    Diane Gobeil came armed with a copy of The Inquirer from 1974, after the first Stanley Cup victory. She was 14 when the Flyers won the 1974 Stanley Cup, and said she’d never seen her hometown in Delaware County so engaged and excited about anything before that team.

    “I never saw the city more excited than that time,” Gobeil said. “He deserved [for] us to come back and say goodbye to him.”

    Fans clad in Parent jerseys lined up to look at the memorial display. Jon Levinson, 62, came down from North Jersey to celebrate Parent, his all-time favorite professional athlete, who won his entire family over to Flyers fandom.

    Fans look at and take photos of the Bernie Parent memorabilia on display at the Bernie Parent Celebration of Life on Friday.

    He met Parent last December at a signing event in Philadelphia, and said it was the happiest moment of his life. When his friend pointed out he had two daughters, he just laughed. “My daughter’s a huge Flyers fan too, so it’s OK. She would understand.”

    Levinson came down for the opening game this season to pay tribute to Parent, and is also attending Saturday’s tribute game against the Blues.

    “You listen to all the speakers today, and for all the wonderful things they said, I don’t know if they even truly painted an accurate portrait of what Bernie meant to the city of Philadelphia, to the fan base, to Ed Snider youth hockey, to everybody,” Levinson said.

    The celebration was an important night for Snider Youth Hockey, the program founded by former Flyers owner Ed Snider and Parent was heavily involved in. Snider youth hockey players handed out programs, and a number came in Snider Hockey jerseys to pay tribute to him. Kenyatta Johnson donated $5,000 to the Ed Snider Foundation, which was doubled by Scott Tharp, president and CEO of Snider Youth Hockey and Education.

    His work with Snider Youth Hockey was just one way Parent, who lived in Avalon, N.J., until his death, impacted the local community. To the fans, Parent was so much more than just a hockey player.

    He inspired Marion Powell to run her first marathon after she met him in New Jersey a few years ago, and used his book, “Journey through Risk and Fear,” as a motivator when training got hard. She spoke to him again in August, and told him she was running her second marathon in October.

    “Bernie has been my biggest motivator, my biggest inspiration,” Powell said. “My daughter told me, when I was training for the marathon, I was on like mile 18 on a run, and she told me Bernie passed away, and I just finished the marathon a month ago.

    “When you have an inspiration, it keeps you going, no matter how hard it is.”

  • How the Eagles are helping this ‘childhood cancer warrior’ show other kids they’re not fighting alone

    How the Eagles are helping this ‘childhood cancer warrior’ show other kids they’re not fighting alone

    Standing alongside his parents and his six siblings, Caleb Quick posed for a photo with Brandon Graham and Milton Williams, wearing a gray shirt that stated, “I kicked cancer’s butt.” After the photo, Caleb untangled the yellow wristbands in his right hand and handed them to both players. The bracelets read: For Childhood Cancer Warriors.

    “People see football players as heroes,” Caleb said. “So, when the kids look at them they’ll see their heroes wearing the bands to support them.”

    When speaking with Caleb, you learn he loves the typical 10-year-old hobbies. He loves to play board games, he loves riding roller coasters, and he loves football. But if you ask him more about himself, you’ll also learn it’s his mission to raise awareness for pediatric cancer after he was diagnosed with leukemia at just 5 years old.

    Caleb Quick and his family have made it their mission to battle pediatric cancer after he was diagnosed with leukemia at 5 years old.

    The Quick family isn’t your typical family. In fact, they’re quite hard to miss. Naomi and her husband, John, are raising seven kids all under the age of 17. Their youngest is Hannah, who is 6 years old, then it’s Caleb, 10; Noah, 12; Grace, 13; James, 14; John Daniel, 15; and their oldest daughter, Chara, 16.

    The Delaware natives have already combined their mission to raise awareness for pediatric cancer with their love for roller coasters, riding more than 100 of them from Minnesota to Tennessee.

    “Our family just kind of draws attention,” Naomi said. “So people kind of look anyway so we use that to our advantage. We would wear foundation T-shirts to the different parks to raise awareness for the different foundations that help childhood cancer. It was raising awareness in this really fun way that didn’t leave people sad. Instead it was more hopeful.”

    Some of these foundations included: B+ Foundation, the Landon Vargas Foundation, Live Like Lucas, Project Outrun, and Kisses for Kyle. Caleb’s Give Kids the World passport, which grants families free access to parks around the country, made this mission possible.

    “Childhood cancer is like a roller coaster that no one wants to get on,” Naomi said. “It is full of ups and downs and it makes you feel sick sometimes. And life is a roller coaster in general. But kids should get to ride coasters. Not have to fight cancer.”

    Now, the Quicks are ready to raise awareness through the family’s next love: football.

    Caleb Quick (second from left) and his family also share a love for roller coasters, and have used that passion to further their mission of supporting pediatric cancer awareness.

    ‘Bad luck’ for the Quicks

    Just months before Caleb was diagnosed with leukemia, his father, John, had just battled ocular melanoma, the most common eye cancer in adults. “Both him and Caleb had genetic testing done and there’s no link between the two,” Naomi said. “So, it’s just like a really bad situation. I don’t know what else to call it, bad luck.”

    John was diagnosed in 2019 and was declared cancer free in January 2020 after he was treated by sewing in radiation seeds into his eyeball, the procedure ended up taking the vision from his right eye. Seven months later, Caleb was diagnosed with leukemia.

    Naomi remembers bringing Caleb to the emergency room in August 2020, after Caleb was complaining about being tired and having knee pain. She wasn’t expecting her next conversation with the doctor to be something so life changing.

    Caleb Quick was in remission within 28 days, but continued treatment for another two years.

    “To have a doctor sit across from you and tell you that you’re really spunky, climbs-all-over-everything, never-settles-down kid has cancer was …” Naomi said before falling silent.

    Caleb’s initial hospitalization at the Nemours Children’s Hospital in Wilmington was 22 days. Within the first three days, Naomi said, Caleb couldn’t walk and he was covered from head to toe in bruises.

    “It was a really quick progression, and then he developed blood clots unfortunately in his central line, which meant he had to be on blood thinners for a good portion of his treatment as well,” Naomi said. “It was definitely a little bit more complicated than even just the regular treatment.”

    By that November, after months of physical therapy and using a walker to move around the house, Caleb rebuilt his muscles and learned to walk again. However, he still has slight residual weakness in one leg from chemotherapy.

    Caleb was in remission within 28 days. But due to a high rate of relapse without the maintenance period of chemotherapy, his treatment lasted another 25 months. His official Ring the Bell date was Oct. 22, 2022. Right after his last dose, he went home to ring the bell in front of his family.

    When asked what he wanted to do with his meds and supplies, Caleb responded: “I wanted to burn them.”

    Of course, they didn’t burn the medicine. But they did throw a big party and burned a few papers to signify he was done with his treatment. And throughout the Quick family’s battle with cancer — not once, but twice — they gained an even stronger sense of community.

    “Our family has seen those really hard times bring us closer together and make us stronger,” Naomi said. “For all of us, we learned to get through hard times doing it as a family and doing it together. Nobody here had to fight alone, which was good. But that can’t be said for all the other families and so I think it’s really made us more aware and more passionate about fighting on behalf of other families that are going through their own cancer battle.”

    Brandon Graham, whose mother overcame leukemia, gave inspiration to Caleb Quick during his battle with cancer.

    ‘Football was the saving grace’

    On Sept. 19, 2022, Caleb had finished one of the biggest chemo days he had left in his treatment. Later that night, he and his family attended the Eagles’ home opener against the Minnesota Vikings.

    The Eagles invited the Quicks to the sideline before the game after learning that they were divided between Vikings and Eagles fans. “It’s split 5-4 in favor of the Eagles, I’m proud to say,” Naomi said. “The Vikings fandom comes from their father’s Minnesota roots.”

    Caleb Quick (left) and his family pose with Brandon Graham at the Eagles’ 2022 home opener against the Vikings. The family is split between Eagles and Vikings fans due to their father’s Minnesota roots.

    Caleb is a fan of both teams. So it was a dream come true for the family to witness both teams in action. Before the game, Graham walked over, welcoming the family with a sweaty hug and words of encouragement.

    “He looked at me and he said, ‘My mom had leukemia as a kid and she was told she would never have kids, and look where I am,’” Caleb remembered.

    A few weeks earlier, Caleb took part in the Phillies’ Childhood Cancer Awareness Night, and got to meet then-first lady Jill Biden.

    Caleb Quick (left) got to meet Jill Biden, then the first lady, and many Phillies players during Childhood Cancer Awareness Night in 2022.

    Two weeks later, toward the end of his treatment, Caleb took a dive in health. The cumulative effect of over two years of chemo had taken its toll on his body. He developed three different viral infections and four different bacterial infections.

    “It was a little scary, and I just remember thinking to myself, replaying those words that Brandon had spoken. He did say that, ‘With God, all things are possible. He’s a fighter, he’s going to make it,’” Naomi recalled. “And I just held onto that because I needed that encouragement. And to have it come from somebody who is a hero to the community, it was a really special interaction.”

    Football has always played a special role for the Quick family, through both Caleb’s and John’s cancer battles. For John, it was an escape. For Caleb, it was an inspiration.

    “John was diagnosed right in the middle of the football season,” Naomi said. “So, football games were this way that we could have normal family time. It was just kind of an escape from reality during both of their cancer fights. Meanwhile, football was an inspiration for Caleb to walk again.

    “Football was the saving grace, and like I said, when he lost his ability to walk, he would say, ‘Mom, I can’t play in the NFL anymore.’ He wants to play in the NFL and he can’t do that if he can’t walk.”

    Eagles wide receiver DeVonta Smith was wearing his yellow bracelet in support of childhood cancer awareness when he caught this touchdown against the Tennessee Titans in December 2022.

    ‘For childhood cancer warriors’

    During the 2022 season, Eagles wide receiver DeVonta Smith wore a yellow wristband given to him by 10-year-old Nicholas Purificato, who was battling Ewing’s sarcoma, a rare bone cancer. Starting that October, Smith wore the bracelet every day at practice and during games to support his fight.

    One day, Caleb spotted the yellow bracelet and looked up at his mom and said, “Mom, No. 6, Smith, he cares about kids like me. Look at those bands,” Naomi recalled.

    At that moment, she ordered similar yellow bands for her son, with the words “For childhood cancer warriors” and a gold ribbon engraved on them.

    At last year’s Big Climb, a fundraiser for the Leukemia Lymphoma Society, Caleb met Milton Williams and Tarron Jackson, a pair of former Eagles defensive ends. Williams, who signed with the New England Patriots this offseason, shared his story about his mother’s battle with breast cancer and proudly accepted Caleb’s bracelet. A few months later, Williams was still wearing the bracelet.

    “We offered him one and then he took a whole bag to the locker room and passed them out,” Naomi said. “We ended up seeing the team pictures later in August and he was wearing them in his team pictures. Caleb was showing it to all of his friends and family. It was a cool moment.”

    But it’s not just Caleb and Naomi’s mission to raise awareness for pediatric cancer. After watching Caleb battle leukemia at such a young age, his siblings have made it their mission as well.

    “Since we know how hard it is for kids to go through cancer, we know that other families who have to go through the same thing, it’s hard for them too,” said Caleb’s sister Grace. “So, when you raise awareness, those families know that you care.”

    Caleb’s older brother J.D. added: “If they’re wearing bands and they’re asked by a reporter why they’re wearing them, then people start to wonder more about cancer because a lot of people don’t know a whole lot about cancer until somebody they know has had it.”

    The Quick family’s ultimate goal is to get bracelets to all 32 teams in the NFL.

    “September is childhood cancer awareness month and it really doesn’t get as much publicity as some other awareness months do, which is odd,” Naomi said. “It seems to be that you have to be in this world to know a lot about it. So, our hope was that if we could get to all 32 teams, then kids across the country, no matter who they’re rooting for, will know that there are people rooting for them. Every child deserves that. Every kid deserves to know that they’re not fighting alone.”

    As of October, Caleb was moved to annual visits after his three-year off treatment lab results came back perfect.

  • They wanted to buy their friend’s place. They ended up with an East Falls rowhouse instead. | How I Bought This House

    They wanted to buy their friend’s place. They ended up with an East Falls rowhouse instead. | How I Bought This House

    The buyers: Jessica Lubniewski, 41, museum educator; David Jacobs, 40, electrical engineer

    The house: A 1,300-square-foot rowhouse in East Falls with 3 bedrooms and 1½ baths, built in 1930.

    The price: listed for $325,000; purchased for $327,500

    The agent: Benjamin Camp, Elfant Wissahickon

    The ask: Jessica Lubniewski and David Jacobs didn’t want to buy just any house; they wanted to buy their friend’s house. But when the friend didn’t accept their offer, they had to pivot.

    The couple started looking for houses that cost less than $375,000 in East Falls. They wanted at least three bedrooms, a bathroom on the first floor, and a dining room that was big enough to entertain. “That was a really big thing for me,” said Lubniewski. They also wanted character and original details — not a recently flipped property.

    Lubniewski and Jacobs in their dining room that is big enough to entertain.

    The search: The couple went to a few open houses and spent their evenings browsing Zillow listings, where Lubniewski spied a preview listing for a house that wouldn’t be on the market for a few weeks. “I just kept looking at it and being like, ‘Man, that house looks so cool,’” said Lubniewski. “It was right around the corner from where we were renting our apartment and had all the things we were looking for.” Lubniewski and Jacobs told their agent they wanted to see the house and he worked to get them “the first viewing on the first day that it was on the market,” said Jacobs.

    The appeal: The couple loved the look of the first floor, which includes two fireplaces. “Neither of them are working,” said Lubniewski, but the mantles are “so beautiful.” The one in the living room has its original facade.

    The arched doorways in between the living room and the dining room and the dining room and the kitchen give “a nice look,” said Lubniewski. Jacobs appreciates the house’s central air system.

    Arched doorways separate the living room from the dining room and the dining room from the kitchen

    The deal: A few hours after visiting the home, the couple put in an offer. Their agent suggested they bid a few thousand dollars over the asking price, so they offered $2,500 more for a total of $327,500. Lubniewski thinks they may have been the only people to see the house.

    The seller accepted their offer and after the inspection, agreed to cover $5,000 of the closing costs. He also threw in the patio furniture and the grill. In exchange, the couple did a 30-day closing.

    “It all happened pretty smoothly and pretty quickly,” said Lubniewski.

    One of the couple’s favorite aspects of the house were the two original fireplace mantels in the living room and the dining room.

    The money: The couple had $90,000 to spend on their home. That included $40,000 of personal savings.

    “We don’t have any kids. We don’t have a lot of expenses,” said Lubniewski regarding how they were able to save. And after Jacobs got his current job as an electrical engineer, they were “able to save a lot quite easily,” she added, a first for both of them.

    They also got $40,000 from Jacobs’ parents, and additional money they inherited from relatives who died earlier in the year.

    They tried to pursue a first-time homebuyer’s mortgage but were about $500 over the income limit, Lubniewski said, so they got a 30-year-mortgage with a 6.45% interest rate instead. They put 20% down, about $65,000.

    The move: Lubniewski and Jacobs made a few changes to the house before they moved in, including ripping out the carpeting upstairs. “It was horrible work, so gross,” said Lubniewski. They hired someone to redo the floors and buff the original hardwood downstairs. They officially moved in at the end of July, said Lubniewski, “on what felt like the hottest day of the summer.”

    Original details, like the woodworking on the staircase banister, was important to Jacobs and Lubniewski.

    Any reservations? Jacobs wishes they had time to replace the old electrical wiring they discovered after they moved in. “In the basement the electrical all looked really good, and the inspector didn’t flag anything.” But when they tried to replace a light fixture in the dining room, they encountered old, fabric-wrapped wire, an outdated type of electrical wiring that exists in many old homes. They think there may be more, but they don’t want to bust through the walls right now to find out.

    Life after close: Since moving in, Jacobs and Lubniewski have been busy getting to know their neighbors. In fact, a woman who grew up in the house stopped by on Halloween and asked to peek inside. “She was really excited,” said Lubniewski. She even had her son take a photo in front of the fireplace mantel, the same spot her mother took a photo of her on Halloween in the ‘70s. “It’s always so interesting to know what has changed,” Lubniewski said. Or in the case of the fireplace mantel, what hasn’t.

    Did you recently buy a home? We want to hear about it. Email acovington@inquirer.com.

  • Tyrese Maxey’s historic night against Milwaukee arrived when the Sixers needed it most

    Tyrese Maxey’s historic night against Milwaukee arrived when the Sixers needed it most

    MILWAUKEE — Tyrese Maxey recovered from a rough performance against the Toronto Raptors to kick the Milwaukee Bucks in the teeth.

    Now, now. That wasn’t so hard, was it?

    In turning a hostile Fiserv Forum into his personal playground, the 76ers star erased memories of fourth-quarter shortcomings to post a historic performance in a 123-114 overtime victory over the Bucks.

    Maxey finished with a career-high 54 points along with nine assists, five rebounds, three steals, three blocks, and five turnovers in 46 minutes, 38 seconds.

    He joins Hall of Famer Wilt Chamberlain (March 18, 1968) as the only two players in franchise history to produce at least 50 points and nine assists in a single game.

    Against the Bucks, Maxey made 18 of 30 field goals and went 12-for-14 from the foul line. Sixteen of his points came in the fourth quarter on 5-for-7 shooting. He added six points in overtime one night after failing to score any fourth-quarter points in a 121-112 home loss to the Raptors.

    Maxey finished that contest with game highs of 24 points and nine assists. He made 8 of 14 shots, but only attempted one — a missed three-pointer — in the fourth quarter.

    “Certainly a big difference,” coach Nick Nurse said. “And again, it’s a variety. I keep thinking, it’s obviously a great amount of threes [six] because he’s such a good shooter. [He had] a few drives all the way, a few floaters, playing on top, playing along the baseline, you know, just moving him around and trying not to make it too predictable.”

    Tyrese Maxey scores one of his seven left-handed layups against the Milwaukee Bucks.

    One thing that no one could have predicted was Maxey making a career-high seven layups with his left hand. It was the most made layups by an NBA player with their nonshooting hand in a game this season.

    But on second thought, maybe folks shouldn’t be surprised.

    “I work hard, and I don’t shoot shots that I don’t work on, if that makes sense,” Maxey said. “I don’t just try stuff. Every shot that I shoot is a shot that I worked on before. So I have confidence in it.”

    He and the Sixers (9-6) know it’s just a matter of remaining aggressive.

    The sixth-year player was second in the league in scoring at 33.4 points per game entering Friday’s matchups. He also led the league in made three-pointers (61) and was seventh in assists (7.9). In addition, he was fourth in the NBA in fourth-quarter points (8.9) for players who’ve played at least four games. Maxey also averaged 5.8 shot attempts in the quarter. So to attempt just one against the Raptors is out of character.

    And his 14 total field goals were well below his average of 23.4 per game.

    Joel [Embiid] definitely got on me as soon as I got in the locker room,” Maxey said. “He pulled out the stat sheet, showed me the 14 shots, and said, ‘This ain’t going to cut it.’ And Joel is normally right.”

    So Maxey responded by tying Hall of Famer Allen Iverson for the ninth-most points in a game in franchise history. Iverson scored 54 points twice as a Sixer.

    “He’s special. He’s special,” Paul George said of Maxey. ”Man, he’s gifted. I think what you guys don’t see and what stands out is after the game on a back-to-back, 50 [points], 45-plus minutes, he goes and lifts.”

    George thinks that speaks volumes to who Maxey is and where he is in his career. George, a nine-time All-Star, has played alongside Hall of Famers, future Hall of Famers, and borderline Hall of Famers.

    “And that’s what they do,” George said. “They do the stuff like that that keeps them going, keeping them strong, and always working on themselves. Therefore, you always see his production on the floor. He puts the work in. And you know, it’s special. He’s a talent.”

    Sixers Tyrese Maxey (0) looks for a shot against Milwaukee Bucks guard AJ Green (20) in the first overtime at Fiserv Forum.

    And George realized that even before signing with the Sixers on July 6, 2024.

    He saw how Maxey excelled while playing alongside former Sixer James Harden. Then he watched how the guard had more added to his plate after Harden was traded to the Los Angeles Clippers during the 2023-24 season. Maxey responded by becoming an All-Star and the league’s Most Improved Player that season.

    “I noticed it early on,” George said. “Just watching him, man, he’s got better. I think it’s his mindset. It’s his mentality. And like I said, he works on his game tirelessly. So all of that adds up, and he’s just a great leader. He’s young, but he’s a great leader. And he’s the total package.”

    Justin Edwards agrees, and he’s also not surprised by his career night.

    “That’s nice,” Edwards said. “Eighteen for 30. That was really nice, 54-ball. But that’s something I expect from Reese, honestly.

    “Just his work ethic [and] the time he puts into basketball, the basketball gods reward him.”

  • Jeff McLane’s keys to Eagles vs. Cowboys in Week 12: What you need to know and a prediction

    Jeff McLane’s keys to Eagles vs. Cowboys in Week 12: What you need to know and a prediction

    The Eagles travel to face the Dallas Cowboys in a Week 12 matchup at AT&T Stadium on Sunday (4:25 p.m., Fox 29).

    Here’s what you need to know about the game:

    When the Eagles have the ball: The offense has a golden opportunity to get back on track against a Matt Eberflus-led defense that has been among the worst in the NFL. The Cowboys have been marginally better of late thanks to reinforcements that came either via trade or from the medical ward. But the Eagles won’t be facing anything near a dominant unit in Arlington, Texas, and may need to open the floodgates if the Dallas offense plays at its explosive best.

    Nick Sirianni’s conservatism has made sense, overall. His team is 40-2 when it has won the turnover battle. The Eagles have given the ball away a league-low four times in 2025, while the Cowboys have forced only eight turnovers all season. But this game may call for more aggressiveness.

    Being aggressive doesn’t just mean having Jalen Hurts drop back to pass and throw deep. The Eagles, more than most offenses, need their run game to be efficient, so there will be another effort to establish Saquon Barkley on the ground. But Sirianni and offensive coordinator Kevin Patullo should have a game plan that forces Dallas to counter their moves rather than the opposite.

    That should mean more three-receiver sets that force Eberflus into nickel personnel, more 3 x 1 formations, and more empty backfields. Run the ball, obviously. The Cowboys have allowed 131.4 yards a game and rank 30th in expected points added (EPA) per rush. But get out of the sets that have exposed the weaknesses in run blocking at the tight end position.

    The Cowboys’ most significant addition has been defensive tackle Quinnen Williams, acquired from the Jets at the trade deadline. He can wreck games. Williams had 1½ sacks and five pressures in his debut last week against the Raiders. The Eagles’ interior offensive line will have its hands full whether Williams is paired with Osa Odighizuwa or Kenny Clark.

    Eagles center Cam Jurgens is questionable with another recent injury (concussion), but right tackle Lane Johnson (foot) will be out for an extended period. That is a significant loss, even if this isn’t replacement Fred Johnson’s first rodeo. The Eagles are 120-62-1 in games Lane Johnson has played and 15-24 in games he has not, including the playoffs, across his 13 seasons.

    Dallas’ edge rush has improved with the emergence of rookie Donovan Ezeiruaku. If Hurts has time, receivers A.J. Brown and DeVonta Smith should have advantages when matched up opposite cornerback Kaiir Elam and slot Reddy Steward. Eberflus leans heavy on his zone coverages, which the Eagles have struggled against. It’s time to break out more crossing-route concepts, even if it puts Hurts’ throws more at risk.

    Javonte Williams rushed 15 times for 54 yards with two touchdowns against the Eagles in Week 1.

    When the Cowboys have the ball: Dallas’ anemic run game from 2024 has been upgraded with former Broncos running back Javonte Williams. He has rushed for 806 yards at 5 yards a clip and has eight touchdowns. Overall, the Cowboys rank 11th in EPA/rush and are strongest on zone runs in between the tackles.

    Their stout interior O-line is led by left tackle Tyler Smith. But they can be susceptible on the flanks with tackles Tyler Guyton and Terrence Steele, particularly in pass protection. I’ll get to the Eagles’ pass rush further down, but their improvement in stopping the run has been consequential.

    After allowing 4.7 yards a carry in the first six games, opposing offenses have averaged just 3.6 yards per rush over the last four. Linebacker Nakobe Dean’s insertion has been significant, and defensive tackle Jalen Carter has increasingly looked his 2024 self. Carter will be in the lineup this time around, assuming that he doesn’t have extra saliva for Dallas quarterback Dak Prescott.

    Jaelan Phillips has also buoyed the run defense, but his impact on the pass rush can’t be overstated. The Eagles’ front hounded Jordan Love and Jared Goff in the last two games, and getting to Prescott will be imperative if the league’s top-ranked passing offense can be curtailed. Vic Fangio has been able to rely on his four-man rush and, as a result, has blitzed less in the last two weeks than previously.

    When the defensive coordinator has sent extra rushers, Dean has been most effective. But Prescott has long been poised when throwing hot. He’s having another great regular season with 21 touchdowns against just six interceptions. It’s the playoffs that have historically given him trouble.

    Dak Prescott has been very good against NFC East teams at home.

    The Cowboys came darn near close to beating the Eagles in the season opener. If receiver CeeDee Lamb didn’t drop a few late throws, they might have pulled off the comeback. Lamb is back from injury, but George Pickens (58 catches for 908 yards and seven touchdowns) has become Prescott’s most dangerous weapon.

    Fangio had Quinyon Mitchell follow Pickens in the first meeting, but that exposed Adoree’ Jackson vs. Lamb. Safeties Reed Blankenship and Drew Mukuba might be the Cowboys’ primary targets on throws over the middle, typically where Prescott loves to eat.

    Extra point: If the Eagles can’t move the ball and score points against this defense, the offense may never be saved. Winning on the road can be tough. The Eagles had lost six straight at JerryDome until last season’s 34-6 demolition of the Prescott-less Cowboys. Each team and season is different, but Dallas is normally a different team at home, as is its quarterback, who has won 70% of his starts there.

    Over the course of the season, we’ve seen Fangio make changes in personnel that have benefited the unit. Having Dean in over Jihaad Campbell and Mukuba over Sydney Brown and decreasing Jordan Davis’ snaps has paid off. Howie Roseman helped with the trade for Phillips, but Fangio hasn’t been afraid to bruise egos.

    On offense, the Eagles have emphasized ball security and efficiency. That likely has rubbed some players the wrong way. Sirianni and Hurts seem to be doing what’s best in the name of winning. But there’s a chance here to reverse course. I see a potential trap in Dallas, but I think the Eagles’ defense will be able to keep Prescott from going off.

    Prediction: Eagles 24, Cowboys 20.

  • Eagles vs. Cowboys: Predictions, odds, injury report, and what everyone is talking about ahead of Sunday

    Eagles vs. Cowboys: Predictions, odds, injury report, and what everyone is talking about ahead of Sunday

    The Eagles are headed down to Dallas for their first matchup against the Cowboys since the season opener.

    The Birds are in control of the NFC East, but their road loss against the Giants stung, and they certainly don’t want a repeat against another division rival at JerryWorld.

    Here’s everything you need to know about this Sunday’s game …

    How to watch

    Eagles vs. Cowboys will air live on FOX at 4:25 p.m., and will bee “America’s Game of the Week,” the network’s national broadcast. That means Kevin Burkhardt and Tom Brady will call the game from the booth, and Erin Andrews and Tom Rinaldi will report from the two sidelines.

    If you’d rather listen to Merrill Reese and Mike Quick call the game, the radio broadcast can be found on 94.1 WIP, and if you want to watch the game with your fellow Birds fans, here are a few spots to check out.

    Philadelphia Eagles offensive tackle Lane Johnson walks onto the field before playing the Detroit Lions at Lincoln Financial Field in Philadelphia on Sunday, Nov. 16, 2025.

    Injury report

    Right tackle Lane Johnson will miss Sunday’s game — and a few more — after suffering a Lisfranc injury in his foot (What is that? Glad you asked) in the team’s win over Detroit. He is expected to miss four to six weeks.

    However, center Cam Jurgens could return after leaving the Lions game with a concussion. Jurgens, who is listed as questionable, missed the prior two games with a knee injury. The only other Eagles players with injury designations for Sunday are backup offensive lineman Myles Hinton (back) and Willie Lampkin (knee/ankle). Jaelan Phillips was a full participant on Friday and is good to go.

    Here’s the Cowboys injury report:

    Eagles-Cowboys odds

    The Eagles are three-point favorites against the Cowboys at most major sportsbooks as of Friday afternoon, down from 4.5 to open the week. The projected point total at DraftKings is 47.5.

    Check out prop bets for Jalen Hurts, Dak Prescott, and more here.

    Eagles to wear kelly green

    For the second time this season — and the first time ever on the road — the Eagles will wear their kelly green uniforms on Sunday. The Birds previously wore their fan-favorite throwbacks in Week 8 against the New York Giants, a 38-20 win that was arguably the team’s best of the season. They’ll wear them again, for the final time this season, in Week 17 against the Washington Commanders.

    The Eagles are 5-0 in their lighter shade of green since bringing the jerseys back in 2023.

    NFL officials stand between Dallas Cowboys quarterback Dak Prescott (left) and Philadelphia Eagles defensive tackle Jalen Carter (right) after a spitting incident as the Eagles play the Cowboys at Lincoln Financial Field in Philadelphia on Thursday, Sept. 4, 2025.

    Story lines to watch

    The Birds haven’t seen the Cowboys since Week 1, when Jalen Carter was ejected just seconds into the game due to Spit-Gate (speaking of which, did anyone see Ja’Marr Chase get suspended for doing the same thing just a few weeks ago?). The spit became a national talking point, with even Gov. Josh Shapiro weighing in, and Carter, who was fined and effectively suspended for a game, promised that “it won’t happen again.”

    Prior to a rain delay in the third quarter of the opener, the Cowboys offense was easily able to sustain drives, scoring 20 first-half points, as the Birds struggled to get pressure. With Carter (presumably) back in the game and the addition of Jaelan Phillips, Dak Prescott will be looking at a whole new Eagles defensive line, one that just forced Jared Goff to play the worst game of his career.

    From the latest on A.J. Brown to the recent drama surrounding Jalen Hurts, here are some other story lines to watch this weekend …

    • Following a report of internal frustrations with Hurts, the Eagles quarterback said he holds himself accountable. Others in the media had a lot more to say (more on that in a bit).
    • Meanwhile, Brown, the subject of his own recent controversy after voicing his own frustrations with the offense, said he believes the Eagles are “close“ to where they need to be on offense — and he laughed off talk about his declining skills
    • Eagles tackle Fred Johnson says it’s “time to show what I can do” as he again fills in for Lane Johnson.

    One number to know

    15-24: The Eagles’ record all-time without Lane Johnson. For comparison, the Birds are 120-62-1 in games Johnson has played in since he was drafted in 2013.

    The Eagles offensive line and the Cowboys defensive line battle in the fourth quarter. Eagles win 24-20 over the Cowboys at Lincoln Financial Field in Philadelphia on Thursday, Sept. 4, 2025.

    Our Eagles-Cowboys predictions

    Here are our writers’ predictions for Sunday …

    Jeff McLane: I see a potential trap in Dallas, but I think the Eagles’ defense will be able to keep Prescott from going off. Eagles 24, Cowboys 20.

    Jeff Neiburg: “It’s a great offense and a bad defense (Dallas) against a great defense and a bad offense (Eagles). The game will probably be decided by who wins the matchup between Dallas’ offense and the Eagles’ defense. Who has the upper hand? It’s hard to pick against the Eagles right now.” | Eagles 27, Cowboys 16

    Olivia Reiner: “While I’m not so sure this will be the get-well game on the ground the Eagles are looking for, they could have a chance to get going in the passing game, given the Cowboys are conceding 6.9 net yards per passing attempt (No. 29 in the league).” | Eagles 21, Cowboys 17

    Matt Breen: “Teams have picked apart the Dallas defense through the air this season but I’ll wait and see if the Eagles can do the same. It’s hard to see the Eagles, especially with a banged up offensive line, suddenly flipping a switch on offense. By now, it’s fair to have a read on who a team is. But the defense is elite and they’ll carry them again on Sunday. We’ll find out how far that unit can carry them the rest of the way.” | Eagles 24, Cowboys 10

    National media predictions

    Here’s a look at how those in the national media are leaning …

    Eagles head coach Nick Sirianni talks to quarterback Jalen Hurts against the Dallas Cowboys on Thursday, September 4, 2025 in Philadelphia.

    What we’re saying about the Eagles

    Here’s a look at what our columnists are saying about the Eagles, starting with David Murphy, who wonders what exactly people are even arguing about anymore with regard to Hurts.

    David Murphy: “The only thing that matters is that Hurts has been good enough that the Eagles no longer need to acquire one of those other guys. Coaches and players are more than justified if they are frustrated with some aspects of Hurts’ approach and performance. But they also surely know that they are more fortunate than most.” Read more.

    Mike Sielski: “This sliver of doubt when it comes to the Tush Push might seem a small matter. It isn’t. The play’s reliability was a tangible symbol of the strength of the Eagles offense: the manner with which they controlled the line of scrimmage.” Read more.

    Marcus Hayes: Don’t expect A.J. Brown to be happy any time soon. Brown called the Eagles’ offense a “bleep show” on a livestream last week … The offense isn’t likely to get any better with the news that right tackle Lane Johnson will miss several weeks with a Lisfranc sprain in his right foot.” Read more.

    What the Cowboys are saying about the Eagles

    Despite what social media may believe, Cowboys head coach Brian Schottenheimer is not approaching the Eagles’ offense like it’s a weak one. They have too many elite players for that, Schottenheimer said.

    “At the end of the day, I’m not looking at the film and saying, ‘These guys are struggling.’ I’m looking at this film and saying, ‘Man, these guys are dangerous.’”

    Here’s more of what the Cowboys are saying

    New addition Quinnen Williams on the Tush Push: “It’s a cool play that they do on second-and-short, on third-and-short, and fourth-and-short. I’ve never been against it. … I’m excited to see the game plan. Excited to go against it. Excited to be able to try and stop it.”

    Schottenheimer on Jalen Carter coming back to the defensive line: “It’s a big difference. He’s a really good player. He’s packaged in there with some really good players. Jordan Davis is obviously a really good player as well. There’s Jaelan Phillips, it’s a hell of a defense. They’re the best in the league, I think. Again, it’s going to be really, really tough. But, we love that challenge and we think we’re pretty good too.”

    Eagles quarterback Jalen Hurts during the National Anthem before the Eagles played the Detroit Lions on Sunday, November 16, 2025 in Philadelphia.

    What the national media is saying

    The discourse about the Eagles’ offense, and whether Hurts is part of the problem, is wearing on ESPN’s Dan Orlovsky, a former Hurts critic who gave an impassioned defense of the quarterback on Get Up.

    “What’s going on with Hurts is so disingenuous and disrespectful to Jalen Hurts,” Orlovsky said. “And I’m not the biggest Jalen Hurts fan. All this dude does is literally everything that everybody begged every other quarterback to do — or knocks them for not doing. All he does is win. All he does is be obsessed with football and winning and doing what’s best for the team.”

    Here’s what else they’re saying

    Jason Kelce on locker room discord: “I think that there are frustrations within a team that build up, continually, and I think Jalen gets a lot of the highlighting of that, again, because he’s the quarterback. … Lane [Johnson] and I didn’t talk for an entire offseason. Lane is like one of my best friends. Like, I love that guy. And this is part of being on a team. There are so many ups and downs. I’ve gotten into yelling matches with Jeff Stoutland, a guy that I consider like a second, almost like a father.

    DeSean Jackson on A.J. Brown: “You can tell when the interest ain’t there, it ain’t there. It’s something else going on. And I got a great relationship with [Brown]. I respect him. I can’t say it. But I know it’s something else going on. It’s not all about football, it’s not all about X’s and O’s. I’ve been there. I’ve had situationships with QBs that I didn’t necessarily like. I’m just going to be honest. And when it ain’t there, it sticks out like a sore thumb. That’s all I’m going to say.”

    What else we’re reading and watching this week

    🏝️ Quinyon Mitchell looked like an All-Pro vs. the Lions — and his Florida family and friends were there to see it.

    🎞️ Why is A.J. Brown struggling against zone coverage? Here’s what the film says about his inconsistency.

    👨‍⚕️ This 10-year-old beat cancer. Now he’s enlisting the Eagles to raise awareness.

    👟 This weekend starts the NFL’s My Cause My Cleats initiative. Here’s a look at some of the colorful kicks the players will be wearing, and the causes they’re supporting.

    🦃 It’s the holiday season, and Jordan Davis served Thanksgiving meals to Camden families this week.